[-] Grail@aussie.zone 6 points 1 month ago

https://www.healthyhomes.org.au/news/heh1pp76ot3hpljgf9x3mp7umqndch

A new study published in The Lancet shows 6.5% of deaths in this country are attributed to cold weather, compared with 0.5% from hot weather. Most deaths will be from cardiovascular and respiratory disease, as it’s the heart and lungs that struggle when we are outside our comfort zone.

Cold weather causes twice as many deaths (proportional to population) as in Sweden. Australia's cold weather problem is, when measured in deaths, twice as bad as Sweden's. People DO die from extreme cold here in Australia, much worse than they do in Europe.

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submitted 1 month ago by Grail@aussie.zone to c/lgbtq_plus@beehaw.org

Isabel Fall’s sci-fi story “I Sexually Identify as an Attack Helicopter” drew the ire of the internet. This is what happened next.

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[-] Grail@aussie.zone 19 points 2 months ago

You're not supposed to find all the koroks. The golden shit is to tell you that you did the wrong thing.

[-] Grail@aussie.zone 9 points 2 months ago

Zionists are fascists. Your comment doesn't really add anything to the discussion.

[-] Grail@aussie.zone 9 points 3 months ago

Yeah, I always hated the word sapphic as well. Seems like people just reinventing the word lesbian all over again for exactly the same reasons, thinking it'll end the exclusionism to let the exclusionists take the more common word without a fight.

I think maybe the correct strategy is to go scorched earth. The exclusionists can have the word lesbian, but now lesbian means transphobe. Let them have it after poisoning it. Because I used to think we had to fight them to keep the word meaning something good, but I was just struck with the futility of such an exercise when I realised it never did much good in the first place.

I'm gay. My femininity doesn't make that something special, doesn't set it apart from any other form of gayness. Gay is gay. As much as 20th century misogynists would have refused to believe that and forced the lesbian label on Me because "gIrLs CaN't ReAlLy Be GaY"

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[-] Grail@aussie.zone 6 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

I really like complaining about the fact that misogynistic rape culture degrades men by reducing them to monsters, because it makes it clear that feminism helps everyone. It's really hard for an antifeminist to argue against that point without admitting that male privilege is a pyrrhic trophy, and doesn't really help anyone but the worst of men.

This fact is, by the way, why TERFs and misogynists get along so well. They may claim to have different priorities, but they have no factual dispute on the belief that males are all raping, womanising monsters. TERFs don't even have an interest in rehabilitating male sexual abusers, because they are trapped in patriarchal realism - the belief that the conditions of patriarchy are immutable reality. As such, they are perfectly capable of getting along and cooperating with misogynist, fascist, violent, abusive men.

The TERF views men as wild and dangerous animals, much like a bull. Bulls are necessary for breeding cows, and there's no point getting angry at them for their nature. A TERF sees men the same way, and complains only when a so-called "bull" is kept in the pen with the cows. It's dehumanising and sexist even beyond the pseudoscientific transphobia.

The respect actual intersectional feminists have for male agency and consent demonstrates a simple truth: one of us is liberated when all of us are liberated. Reproducing the cultural myths of patriarchy can only turn us into misogynists, even if we think those myths only harm men. Everything's corrected. A better world has to be built simultaneously at all levels. Demonstrating that fact is our best weapon against fascists like Andrew Tate, who claim to empower men through patriarchy. It's a lie.

[-] Grail@aussie.zone 9 points 4 months ago

Went ahead and added this comment to the original article. Thanks for the praise, sometimes it inspires Me to write even more.

[-] Grail@aussie.zone 20 points 4 months ago

If Narcissus had been a woman and Echo a man, then we would correctly analyse the story as a misogynistic exercise in heteropatriarchal norms. Modern readers are only able to empathize with the Hellenic view that Narcissus owed other people love, because the heteropatriarchy erases asexual men and maintains that all men are naturally creatures of sexual desire. This is not only aphobic, it contributes to misogynistic rape culture and it degrades men by reducing them to the social role of sexual monster. A role some men take seriously, and to the extent of normalising sexual violence against women.

In making space for men to exist without the pressure to romantically or sexually perform for (or violently against) others, we see that Narcissus is rightfully entitled to his own feelings. Echo is guilty of romantic assault, seeking to make him hers, according to a fantasy she developed in her head while stalking him without his knowledge. Echo fails to respect his right to consent in her heart. And so does the nameless suitor who prays to Nemesis for the act of divine intervention that lead to his death.

Narcissus does not owe his allosexual suitors a polite rejection. From the content of his life, we see that he was constantly sexually harassed, and indeed sometimes violently so. And he was 16, for Dionysus' sake! He was just a kid! Some boys haven't even hit puberty yet at that age. And given the Hellenic idealization of the beauty of male youth, I daresay Narcissus may have been one of those boys. And no 16 year old, regardless of bodily maturity, deserves to be subjected to such sexual harassment. No adult does either, but it's particularly disgusting in the case of a boy like Narcissus.

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[-] Grail@aussie.zone 8 points 5 months ago

Soulist lemur

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submitted 6 months ago by Grail@aussie.zone to c/foss@beehaw.org

Why are FOSS platforms like Matrix having such a hard time getting users to migrate from Discord? Because of PluralKit.

[-] Grail@aussie.zone 18 points 6 months ago

We're playing Glitch! It's about retired world-killing void gods who solve mysteries and go to therapy

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submitted 7 months ago by Grail@aussie.zone to c/imageai@sh.itjust.works

Been playing around with trying to get Bing AI to make an excrucian strategist. This one turned out pretty good!

Some images of Strategists drawn by an actual people:
https://elenaalbanese.artstation.com/projects/oABLNz
https://www.pillowfort.social/posts/2269221

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submitted 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) by Grail@aussie.zone to c/lemmy_support@lemmy.ml

I just finished running Ansible-Lemmy. 24 tasks OK, 3 changed, 7 skipped, 0 failed. And I don't know what to do next to access my server. The guides stop there. According to the docker-compose file generated by Ansible on my server, the port should be 8536. When I go to my server's address at that port, it gets stuck loading. Same story on every common port I tried. Same with no port input.

When I curl localhost on the server, I get this:

<!DOCTYPE html>
<html>
<head>
<title>Welcome to nginx!</title>
<style>
    body {
        width: 35em;
        margin: 0 auto;
        font-family: Tahoma, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif;
    }
</style>
</head>
<body>
<h1>Welcome to nginx!</h1>
<p>If you see this page, the nginx web server is successfully installed and
working. Further configuration is required.</p>

<p>For online documentation and support please refer to
<a href="http://nginx.org/">nginx.org</a>.<br/>
Commercial support is available at
<a href="http://nginx.com/">nginx.com</a>.</p>

<p><em>Thank you for using nginx.</em></p>
</body>
</html>

But when I curl lemmy.soulism.net (from the server or anywhere else), I get this instead:

<html>
<head><title>301 Moved Permanently</title></head>
<body>
<center><h1>301 Moved Permanently</h1></center>
<hr><center>nginx</center>
</body>
</html>

Before, when I was midway through getting Ansible to run and it was failing at the docker compose step, I was able to get the same curl result from localhost and from the domain, and I could even see the welcome to nginx page in my browser. Something changed and I don't know what.

Did Ansible actually fail? Is there a bash command to start Lemmy from the server that I'm missing? What's up?

EDIT: Inspected the lemmy-UI task in docker. It's showing as unhealthy, because curl localhost:1234 is getting a connection refused. The port is listed correctly in the docker container, it's open on iptables, and it's open on oracle cloud.

EDIT EDIT: I got to the Lemmy page, but it's an error page. curl -I requests return error 500 internal server error. Health checks are only waiting 0ms for a response even though I have the timeout set to 10s in the docker-compose.yml

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submitted 7 months ago by Grail@aussie.zone to c/lemmy_support@lemmy.ml

The instructions for Lemmy-Ansible say to install Ansible on my local machine, not on my destination server. My destination server is running ubuntu, but my local machine is windows, so Ansible won't work on it. Do I need two Linux machines in order to use the Ansible installation?

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submitted 7 months ago by Grail@aussie.zone to c/lemmy_support@lemmy.ml

I'm trying to set up my own Lemmy server with Docker. I think I have everything set up, but I'm getting an error Cannot autolaunch D-Bus without X11 $DISPLAY. This error kind of makes sense, because I'm SSHing into my server and have not forwarded D-Bus connections, so $DISPLAY is undefined. But why does a Lemmy server need a display in the first place? Is this a bug and a display isn't actually needed? If I set $DISPLAY to whatever, will it still run okay?

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