[-] LittleRedDev@lemmynsfw.com 7 points 2 months ago

You asked for the most important but everyone is hedging with several... after some reflection I will say courage. Courage in a partner plays into our relationship in a multitude of ways; primarily, the initial courage to approach me in public, the courage to be charming in the face of being insecure or threatened, courage to overcome my own shyness, courage to break down my walls, courage to suggest we take things to the next step. Courage is a rarity among men (my preferred partners) and especially in the geeky sphere of things it's almost non-existent. Courage is sexy as all fucking hell.

[-] LittleRedDev@lemmynsfw.com 5 points 2 months ago

I could not agree more!!

[-] LittleRedDev@lemmynsfw.com 12 points 2 months ago

Yeah totally agreed!! I would say opening with something over-the-top explicit is just as bad as opening as if we were in church! And fear not, this community is miles ahead of anywhere I've been, just wanted to put out the *vibes * I get and how to generally avoid the ick.

[-] LittleRedDev@lemmynsfw.com 6 points 2 months ago

Fire for effect!

[-] LittleRedDev@lemmynsfw.com 5 points 4 months ago

I love all of your insight here, thank you! I will def let the inner me shine when I post :x (you think correctly, I get paid in attention lol)

[-] LittleRedDev@lemmynsfw.com 5 points 5 months ago

dang I messed up already :x ok I will tyvm

[-] LittleRedDev@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 5 months ago

I thought it was wild enough :x

[-] LittleRedDev@lemmynsfw.com 6 points 5 months ago

Thank you so much, making me blush rn tbh

[-] LittleRedDev@lemmynsfw.com 5 points 5 months ago

Damn. Fucking. Right. thx ;)

[-] LittleRedDev@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 6 months ago

Mission: Accepted

[-] LittleRedDev@lemmynsfw.com 5 points 6 months ago

I could get used to flattery like this, thx!!

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