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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/unclelurry on 2023-10-02 20:55:51.

Me and my mates planned a Casino outing this past Saturday evening. Three of us drove together, the fourth said he’d meet us there. The plan was to meet at 7pm.

The three of us arrive to the Ino a little after 7. Fourth friend is not there, so we get some dinner and start gambling. At around 9:30pm we decide to call it a night (craps table kicked our ass) and go home. Fourth friend still hadn’t arrived when we left.

As we’re driving home, I get a call from Mr. Tardy and he’s yelling his ass off about how he’s at the Casino and we left without him etc. I laugh and tell him tough luck, you were over 2.5 hours late. He is still pissed at me and reading me the riot act all day, calling me a shite friend. Some of our friends have taken his side.

Important to note, this dude is always late. He has zero respect for other’s time. The only reason I might even consider myself being the asshole in this situation is that he did message us before we left asking if we were still there. I did not reply to him. With how late he was, I didn’t think I owed him a response.

So, AITA?