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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/grizold on 2023-10-03 16:28:04.

For context I am 24 and Ex is 25. We broke up just over 6 months ago and we have 2 kids so we're still in contact. He's recently gotten into a new relationship with the girl he was cheating on me with for a while. He has known the girl for a while and she was 17 when they started seeing each other to start with. His parents don't know the reasons behind our breakup and she's 19 now.

Last week I went to pick up our kids from his parents as that is where he is currently living and his dad apologised for him not being there to hand the boys over to me, and that their dad was away for the weekend in a different city. I replied with oh it's fine. he mentioned he was seeing his GF at uni. I had absolutely no idea they weren't aware of her and his dad didn't say anything about it at the time. I'm guessing they've mentioned something to him when he's gotten back as he's sent me multiple texts of abuse saying Im trying to get in between his relationship. I have my opinions on the relationship but i've never voiced them as he's a very good dad to the boys and they don't spend time with his new girlfriend.

AITA.