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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Anxious-Editor-6056 on 2023-10-04 05:48:49.
We just had people over to the house for my 45th birthday.
I managed to make it into my thirties without getting married then I met my wife (29). She is perfect for me. She is the most beautiful woman I have ever met and she is so much smarter than me it is embarrassing sometimes.
She is amazing but she has one weird hang-up. She thinks some of my hobbies are immature. Which is fine. She can be the mature one in our relationship.
We have two kids 7/5. Never thought I wanted kids but now know I couldn't live without them. They wanted to get me a present for my big birthday. So we went to ToysRUs and got me a sweet Lego set. Then I helped them wrap it up so I could open it up at our party.
All the guys were jealous of my new Lego set. I got some nice golf stuff and some very nice bourbon but all the guys could talk about was my new Millennium Falcon.
My wife for some reason decided to take the credit from the kids. She was telling everyone how she got it for me because I'm such a little boy at heart. Our kids heard her and were confused because they know she wasn't involved at all. They were telling everyone how they took me to the store to find something I would love. The each even put in some of their own money ($10 each) to buy my gift.
When guys asked me about it I told the truth that my kids and I had bought it and that my gift from my wife was new golf clubs.
She is upset that the gift she got me wasn't the one everyone thought was the best. She said I should have made it shift from the family and not just the kids.
I told her that her gift was amazing and that I will be using them for years and that I appreciate her getting me something that useful. But I said that the kids had chosen to get me a toy and that she shouldn't try and take credit.
She says that I didn't have to exclude her from the toy shopping. And that I didn't need to tell people she wasn't involved in buying me my "toy". I didn't. She has told me in the past that it embarrasses her that I play with toys.