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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Key-Chipmunk-5211 on 2023-10-05 19:17:33.

Me 27F, my boyfriend 25M , and 5Y son recently did a big move to a different state to be with his family. There was some drama with his mom and sister so she moved in with their grandparents. About 2 months of her living there she asked if she could live us. We kept saying no because we didn't want a roommate and didn't have an extra room to give to her. So she just started coming over every single day and sleeping on our couch and eating with us. After about a month of that we decided if she is going to be here anyways might as well charge her rent. We laid down some rule before she moved in and she agreed to them. No drugs(she does shrooms and other psychedelics) had to fix her cat and find home for the kittens she was already pregnant with, and she couldn't keep a kitten either because we already have 2 cats of our own and we didn't want more. She was fine with all this because it was supposed to be temporary. Here we are a year later and all her plans to move out have fallen through so she is no longer leaving and also broke all the rules she agreed too. We only charge her $350 to live here and have been feeding her on our $500 food budget this whole time. Well things have been tough and i cant stretch $500 anymore. We asked her to feed herself her and cats because we have been buying food for them too and she agreed but its been a week and she is still eating our food and her cat dishes have been empty for 2 days now. Their family also thinks we are being mean asking her to buy her own food since she already pays us $350. I tried to explain that $350 is the rent. We don't give our landlord $1800 and then ask him to feed us. My only job is to feed my child and boyfriend. Also a side note when she was looking for different places to live she said her budget was $800 a month so she could still afford her car/phone bills and good. We only charge $350 so by that math she should have more than enough to feed herself especially since her grandparents feed her lunch at work. Edit: alot of comments are saying to kick her out. We are renting the house from my bf and his sisters grandparents so we can't kick her out.