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I was talking to one of my friends and he mentioned staying home on July 4, citing how there are a lot of really ugly things going on in the US.

After thinking about this myself, I'm starting to feel the same way. Instead of being proud of the country, I'm feeling like I'm just another wallet that companies and the government are trying to suck all the money out of.

The cost of living is going up, the housing market is a nightmare, I don't feel very confident in our government at all, the job market is a nightmare...

I think I'll be staying home this year too... anyone else?

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[-] Dogiedog64@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

I've said it before and I'll say it again, but HOW THE FUCK could I EVER be proud of this country anymore??? We've done nothing to deserve respect or patriotism.

[-] squaresinger@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

After thinking about this myself, I’m starting to feel the same way. Instead of being proud of the country, I’m feeling like I’m just another wallet that companies and the government are trying to suck all the money out of.

Always have been, always will be.

The cost of living is going up, the housing market is a nightmare

Don't worry, once they deported or killed all the ~~Jews~~ illegals the prices will surely come down.

[-] umbraroze@slrpnk.net 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I thought you guys don't celebrate it that much any more? Heard it got replaced with a Trump Birthday Military Parade Day or someshit. And it sucked so much that nobody is doing holidays anymore. Sorry, I'm in Europe, the news are coming in slowly from the US these days

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[-] hperrin@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 weeks ago

I’m very proud to be a Californian. I’m utterly embarrassed to be an American.

I'm boycotting America this year.

[-] AmbiguousProps@lemmy.today 2 points 2 weeks ago

I haven't "celebrated" the fourth in nearly a decade for this reason. On top of that fireworks are pretty bad for everything and those with PTSD.

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[-] mechoman444@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

I just want my day off so I can have morning sex with my partner and set fireworks off with my kids.

[-] WanderWisley@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

Same I will be working on the 4th so I’ll just be making good hoilday pay while most of my trump supporting coworkers will be celebrating the downfall of this country. Fuck this shit, fuck everyone who is onboard with the current situation of this country. Stay safe everyone.

[-] ramenshaman@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

Going to be spending the 4th building guillotines in my garage

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[-] hardcoreufo@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

It's been almost 20 years since I felt patriotic. I mostly just comfort the dog and hope the yahoos don't accidentally burn my house down.

[-] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

I'm kinda the opposite, but I have the same reasons. I love where I live, I just wish they'd do better and I do what I can to help. I don't need to wave a flag, people can see where I stand by what I do. If that's not patriotism I don't know what is.

[-] thatradomguy@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

Why feel patriotic for a country that literally stole/claimed what wasn't theirs to being with? Never felt such a thing for this so called "first world".

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[-] andros_rex@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

I get double pay for the holiday, yay!

[-] Doom@ttrpg.network 1 points 2 weeks ago

I grew up with smart parents. We were never patriotic, this country has sucked for decades

[-] tisktisk@piefed.social 1 points 2 weeks ago

This is all I've talked about at work.
What are we supposed to take pride in specifically? I suppose pride in our resilience--there is great potential to learn from our repetitious failures surely

[-] phoenixz@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 weeks ago

How about you stage a huge protest, and this time you don't leave until Fuckwad McClowncar is out of the Whitehouse?

[-] yarr@feddit.nl 1 points 2 weeks ago

Not much of a social safety net. Take that much time off work and things are going to get uncomfortable pretty fast. Last I heard, it's like 1/3 of America that is two paychecks away from losing their housing. It's sad.

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[-] Peter_Arbeitslos@feddit.org 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Kinda interesting how you US-Americans have a certain day for being even more patriotic than the average US-patriotism rest of the time. As a German I personally haven't felt patriotic at any point in my life and most of the people I know (probably more left-leaning than German average) always looked at your patriotism (espacially on July 4th) with a certain lack of understanding. Why even be patriotic? Why always raise the US-flag? Why are there Florida men running through hurricanes with an US-flag? I know independence and stuff, but still why celebrate your patriotism even more on a specific date, even as a more left-leaning person?

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[-] GrayBackgroundMusic@lemmy.zip 1 points 2 weeks ago

Havent felt proud to be an American in a long while. I'm proud of loving thy neighbor as myself, not lining the pockets of billionaires. I hate that I'm powerless to do much. Representative democracy? My ass. No one represents me. They're all aristocrats. "it's one banana, Michael. What could it cost, $10?"

I'm not bitter about it at all. /s

[-] linrilang@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

Yeah… feels like the meaning behind the holiday has been completely lost. It’s hard to celebrate when so many people are struggling with basic things like housing and healthcare.

[-] SolidShake@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

I haven't gone to see fireworks in a few years. Recently I just go to Walmart and buy some big packs and let my kids enjoy lighting them off and just having fun. Plus the long weekend is awesome.

[-] AA5B@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

I was hoping everyone would turn out for another No Kings event but I guess too many people complained.

If we can’t be proud of the mess we’re in now, maybe we can be proud of the people who speak up, who try to create change. Maybe we can hark back to our origins tearing down oppressive political and corporate systems. Maybe we can hold up the mythical ideas that used to unite us and fight to make them true. It’s our duty as patriotic citizens to set our country on the right path toward one we can be proud of.

[-] Bloomcole@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

As if there was a reason to celebate that cancer country any other year

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