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I work for a nonprofit law firm, and I used to enjoy working with them because my co-workers were easy to get along with, and I felt like my work was meaningful. I wasn’t just filling the pockets of some rich guy who wanted more money, I was helping low-income people in the right direction to obtain an attorney when no one else could help them.

Ever since new upper management took over, things only went downhill from here. More than half of our staff is gone ever since our new managing attorney showed up, yet she still insists on blaming us instead of taking responsibility.

My new manager has loathed me (and my co-workers) since day one. She’s constantly looking for small non-issues to blow out of porportion and act like they’re a big deal.

I already know I’m getting fired. They haven’t told me, but it’s obvious they want me gone. They put me on probation because I “followed the directions of my old supervisors, and my new one didn’t like it”. Whenever I express my concerns, she plays the “Nuh uh, I don’t wanna hear it!” card.

Where am I supposed to go from here? I wouldn’t mind making less money than I currently make, which is $43,000 per year.

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[-] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 6 points 3 weeks ago

Start job hunting now. Half ass your job until they fire you.

[-] disregardable@lemmy.zip -1 points 3 weeks ago

Not a great idea for lawyers to do that. Your boss gets the fees whether your client wins or loses, but your client could lose their entire case. Law is kind of messed up that way.

[-] LarryBetraitor@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

To be clear, I'm not a lawyer.

[-] Adulated_Aspersion@lemmy.world 5 points 3 weeks ago

Start calling in. Use absolutely every minute of any accrued sick time. Use that time to job search and interview.

[-] slazer2au@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

Have you kept in touch with your old coworkers who have left? They might have positions.

[-] LarryBetraitor@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

My former managing attorney is looking, actually.

[-] Steve@communick.news 3 points 3 weeks ago

Call them today. Don't wait

[-] 6nk06@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 weeks ago

I write software and I'm in the same situation. My goal right now is to focus on companies that have been there a long time (20/30 years old, I shun startups).

Better if they work on an subject that is the most boring ever, stuff that will be stable for a long time.

It is subjective but I'm fed up with crazy managers who harass people because line must go up.

[-] Etterra@discuss.online 2 points 3 weeks ago

You should have started prepping to leave when the problems started. IDK anything about your line of work, but most jobs are basically the same at the social level. Find a place that has a good vibe. If the atmosphere turns to shit move on. Don't feel you power loyalty to your employer - they're just another source of income, you don't owe them Jack shit.

[-] cynar@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

A thing to note is that staff tend not to leave good companies. That means they recruit FAR less than you would expect.

A useful method would be to make a list of all the companies you can find that seem to both be going fine, but not obviously recruiting.

Getting your foot in the door with them is the hard part. First thing is to check if you have any contacts there. Ex-coworkers, or people who are friends with a staff member. If so, try and leverage that contact to get your C.V. to them. Failing that, a polite phonecall to HR or the boss (depending on the company), with a follow up email is the best bet.

This method still has a 95%+ failure rate. The aim is to get your C.V. in front of the right person when they need a role filled, but haven't started the recruitment process yet.

[-] communism@lemmy.ml 1 points 3 weeks ago

You could look for another job in the nonprofit sector. Your past experience will help you. You've not said what your specialisation is or what exactly you do—if you're a lawyer and want to keep lawyer-ing, I suppose you could look for another nonprofit law firm, or something like a human rights law firm.

[-] LarryBetraitor@lemmy.world 0 points 3 weeks ago

I'm not a lawyer, I'm a receptionist/legal assistant. There are no other non-profit law firms in my area.

[-] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 1 points 3 weeks ago

Your course is clear: choose the timing of your firing.

[-] scarabic@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

We used to have a print news sheet for job listings in the non profit sector, which is very large in my home city. It would have one or two articles as well but was mostly job classifieds. Wish I could give you a specific recommendation, but I guess I’m saying just find another job?

It sounds like you want to be in that job sector, but you experienced a disastrous turnover in management at one organization. To be candid it’s a mild story compared to many I have heard. Tyrannical EDs or crazy founders with too much authority, big funding swings, politics up the wazoo… the non profit sector seems to be particularly drama-laden. I’m not sure why. But take the hit and move on. It doesn’t sound like it was about you personally.

[-] MojoMcJojo@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

They are not hiring an employee, you are hiring an employer. Interview them.

[-] Zwuzelmaus@feddit.org 1 points 3 weeks ago

How do I make sure my next job is a better place to work?

By not getting nervous. Keep your calm.

Finding a new job takes it's time. Maybe half a year, I don't know. There are statistics that answer this for your region and your field. Grant the time to yourself.

Stay there if it is still bearable, but start your looking around now in all earnest, as if you were free already. If the money reservoir's are running low, make reasonable decisions, not fearful ones.

[-] Hello_there@fedia.io 1 points 3 weeks ago
  • if you are doing well in intervoew, ask why the position is vacant. If they say the old guy was bad that could be a red flag.
  • talk to coworkers. See if there is anyone they know at another place doing similar work. References to good positions is key.
  • don't limit yourself to what you currently do. Think about what transferable skills you have and what job that might relate to.
  • customize resume to the job you want, not the job you have.
[-] jbrains@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Make sure? Impossible.

All jobs are an experiment and a guess. Interviewers are often on their best behavior, just like candidates are. There is no way to know. Hope for the best and be ready to leave, to the best of your ability.

I'm really very sorry that the situation isn't better for you. I believe I'm facing similar issues.

Good luck. Peace.

[-] LarryBetraitor@lemmy.world 0 points 3 weeks ago

How many times have you changed jobs?

[-] jbrains@sh.itjust.works 0 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

My first Adult Job (not a teenager job) lasted 4 years and ended in 2001. After that I became a freelancer. Since then, the longest gig I've had is 11 weeks or 1-2 weeks every 4-6 weeks for about 4 years. Otherwise, I have worked with clients 2 hours to 5 days at a time.

I got away with that for 25 years and now I'm struggling to figure out what happens next.

[-] LarryBetraitor@lemmy.world 0 points 3 weeks ago

Sounds quite fun. You were able to live off of freelancing, too? Not to mention, shorter gigs means more skills for your resume and more connections!

How were you able to get your start freelancing?

[-] jbrains@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

It has its moments, but it also led to significant terror every year, wondering whether this would be the last year people would hire me.

I started accidentally. I stockpiled cash from my IBM job, then I wrote some things about a topic that was becoming popular. Then people noticed me. Since I didn't have to settle for another crappy job, I could take a chance on doing a few gigs that paid good money.

Two years later, somebody identified me as The Person to write The Next Book on that topic. And then a few influential people amplified me.

And then a few more.

That was the luck I needed.

[-] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

Anything that feels like a red flag, probably is, but you never know for sure until you get into it.

[-] LibertyLizard@slrpnk.net 1 points 3 weeks ago

Talking to other people who work there and reading reviews can help. But the real issue is hierarchical management style is always going to be vulnerable to abuse by bad actors because your managers have near total power over you.

In the private sector the solution is worker's coops. I'm not sure what it would be called in the nonprofit world but there are likely more democratically run organizations in a similar vein.

Another alternative is finding somewhere with a strong union. Unions can also be toxic in some ways but usually far less so than normal work power dynamics.

[-] edgemaster72@lemmy.world 0 points 3 weeks ago

idk, but if you aren't already, make sure you're documenting everything you can, saving any communications you can, you never know when you might need that kind of stuff

[-] adespoton@lemmy.ca 1 points 3 weeks ago

It’s not just useful for lawsuits (creating them and defending against them) — it also helps you identify early if a new job is going down the same path.

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