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Best apps for private messaging (www.privacyguides.org)
submitted 2 weeks ago by Maragato@lemmy.world to c/opensource@lemmy.ml

Hello. I am looking for an alternative to Telegram and I prefer an application that uses decentralised servers. My question is: why is the xmpp+omemo protocol not recommended on websites when it is open source and decentralised? The privacyguides.org website does not list xmpp+omemo as a recommended messaging service. Nor does this website include it in its comparison of private messaging services.

https://www.privacyguides.org/en/assets/img/cover/real-time-communication.webp

Why do you think xmpp and its messaging clients such as Conversations, Movim, Gajim, etc. do not appear in these guides?

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[-] Neptr@lemmy.blahaj.zone 25 points 2 weeks ago

Here is a blog post by a widely respected cryptographer on why XMPP+OMEMO is not secure: https://soatok.blog/2024/08/04/against-xmppomemo/

[-] artyom@piefed.social 4 points 1 week ago

This post is 1.5 years old and outdated.

[-] Hazematman@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 week ago

Do you know if there is a more up to date description of xmpp e2ee without having to read the spec. Specifically interested in stuff like how much metadata is leaked.

[-] Neptr@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 week ago
[-] artyom@piefed.social 2 points 1 week ago
[-] Neptr@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 week ago

Did that fix any of the underlining issues with OMEMO use across XMPP clients, such as odd/opaque choices by the OMEMO maintainer, or the fragmentation of OMEMO versions used by clients (most being very out-of-date)?

Let me be clear: I am NOT anti-XMPP (or even OMEMO). I would love to see it succeed because I much prefer it over Matrix and other alternatives. My problem isn't with the technology, just the implementation.

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[-] Caravaggio@feddit.nl 16 points 2 weeks ago

Misleading title.

[-] ProdigalFrog@slrpnk.net 11 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I've personally used 4 encrypted communication apps, here are my thoughts:

Signal: huge downside that it required a phone number (not sure if it still does), and the centralized nature of it makes me very wary of it. It worked reliably when I did use it, but I no longer use it.

Matrix with Element: As others mentioned, it leaks meta data. It wasn't very reliable in my experience with encrypted group chats. Messages would constantly not be readable by other users in the chat, requiring frequent re-sending to finally get through. Overall I found it very frustrating to use.

XMPP: Experience can somewhat vary depending on the app used. With the Movim desktop front-end, I can sometimes have issues with encrypted messages not getting unencrypted (possibly just user error on my part), but with mobile apps like Conversations or Monocles, its been pretty much 100% reliable. Doesn't drain my battery either. Would recommend.

Deltachat: I've used this the least, but I really like it. Super easy to connect to friends and join a group chat, its all encrypted by default so no real chance of encountering an unencrypted message, very nice UI, is available on all platforms as one app, and has been 100% reliable with low battery drain. Highly recommend if you don't need to make voice calls (it can do texts, images, and supports voice/video files you can send and play within the app).

[-] Shimitar@downonthestreet.eu 9 points 2 weeks ago

Self host your matrix server, use Continuwuity not Synapse, and do not enable federation.

[-] u_tamtam@programming.dev 4 points 1 week ago

Then why bother with Matrix at all if that's not for the federation? You give yourself the trouble and inefficiencies of an over-engineered protocol you won't even use.

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[-] onlooker@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 weeks ago
[-] Shimitar@downonthestreet.eu 3 points 1 week ago

Super heavy, and overkill unless you need to run matrix.org itself.

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[-] loweffortname@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 week ago

I know it's not the most popular, but I've genuinely been happy with Matrix for the last few years. Obviously there are problems, but it really has gotten fairly stable. At least...for me...

[-] myszka@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 week ago

+1 for matrix

[-] cockmushroom@reddthat.com 7 points 2 weeks ago

The freenet/futo devs are working something called river (https://freenet.org/). I don't think it's mobile yet and cannot attest to it's call quality. It's fully decentralized though, so it should work even if they abandon the project. Here's a video on the protocol https://youtu.be/3SxNBz1VTE0 Mostly goes over the introductory docs that're on the site.

[-] sga@piefed.social 7 points 2 weeks ago

reason for them not appearing is that xmpp is a largely relaxed platform, that is, all implementations are not equally strict. some may implement certain extensions, others may implement other. encryption (omemo) is a common one that most implement, but then client (the user apps like gajim) may or may not implement them correctly, or they may have a fallback (first communication between 2 clients maybe is not encrypted), and other different problems with encryption being flaky (firstly, it is not perfect forward secrecy, it is a bit prone to failure (messages unable to decrypt), etc.), hence it is not recommended much.

[-] bufalo1973@piefed.social 3 points 2 weeks ago

For the first communication not encrypted there's an easy solution: force encryption on your side and block unencrypted communications.

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[-] UnfinishedProjects@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 week ago

I've hardly used it so far, but simpleX seems promising from my limited knowledge. I highly suggest checking it out.

[-] toothbrush@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 weeks ago

No idea. I use the app Conversations (XMPP+Omemo) and it works great. Only downside ist that you have to somewhat trust the server you are on, because of metadata. But thats basically every chat app.

[-] user28282912@piefed.social 4 points 1 week ago

Prosody XMPP + Pidgin/(Monal|Xabber) has always worked for me. It is not hard to setup or manage, has E2E encryption too.

[-] Labna@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Tox, where is TOX ? Why it's not mentioned in the article ? It's te most private messaging app, no other app can be more secure.

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[-] rodsthencones@startrek.website 2 points 1 week ago

Right now, the open source community has so many different ways to communicate.

The problem is what is the goal, privacy or security.

All seem to have benefits and problems.

I use conversations and delta chat. I don't know what is best. But it is better that anything that is owned by big corps.

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