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[-] PunnyName@lemmy.world 30 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

If you wanna talk for an hour, sure.

If you want to avoid a paper trail, absolutely not.

[-] aaaa@piefed.world 27 points 2 months ago

Funny.. in my experience, the people who ask are the people who don't have to. They are always welcome because they understand.

[-] SurfinBird@lemmy.ca 20 points 2 months ago

If you are one of the people that asks this, please add the reason for the call.

[-] InvalidName2@lemmy.zip 16 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I mean, of course you call me, any time day or night. My phone won't ring and I definitely won't answer, but you do you and call call call all you want, sweetie! How's your mama doing?

[-] astropenguin5@lemmy.world 15 points 2 months ago

Tbh people not asking (particularly discord calls for some reason) bugs me. Like I need a second to get into the right headspace for it and I don't like being surprised by a call

[-] Tinidril@midwest.social 3 points 2 months ago

This is pretty close to being the new standard etiquette, and I'm all for it.

[-] pineapple@lemmy.ml 14 points 2 months ago

I love being called, but my phone never seams to ring when I am being called.

[-] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 7 points 2 months ago

i live near a hill. sometimes my phone rings, sometimes it doesn't. sometimes it takes 6 hours for a text to arrive, sometimes immediately, sometimes it get lost in the packet routing tumble dryer.

[-] janus2@lemmy.zip 4 points 2 months ago

this reminded me to unmute my phone ty

[-] thethrilloftime69@feddit.online 10 points 2 months ago

You need to give me a reason why you need to speak with me. There's very few people I actually want to talk to.

[-] janus2@lemmy.zip 8 points 2 months ago

I'll take calling over receiving 10+ texts in a row any day though

[-] bytesonbike@discuss.online 4 points 2 months ago

You get 10+ texts in a row?

I usually respond in paragraph form and then as they're typing a reply, I panic and ghost them for another day.

[-] ulterno@programming.dev 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I ask to call even if the other side is one that never going to and will call with another no. after I save their no.

this post was submitted on 12 Feb 2026
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