holy shit these comments

lemmy users stop being individualist-brained, victim-blaming misogynists challenge: IMPOSSIBLE

you don’t stop misogyny by just ignoring it you twats, and hot take, mainstream social media being filled with nothing but privileged assholes being bigots (because all the good people were told to just go somewhere else 😇) is not good, actually!

I don't understand. Is she posting with her real name and photo? If so, her parents should be in jail. That's mindless. There are billions of people online and millions of them are going to be unhinged assholes and lunatics. WTF!

This problem has become so big and deep rooted, that we need multiple approaches over a prolonged period to rectify the exposure and impressions kids (below 16, maybe even 18) are subject to.

First and foremost, education in every layer: Adults, teachers and parents need to not only be aware of what the kids are (potentially) exposed to online, but be educational about how to perceive it. Blocking is not effective enough long-term (check out the failure of COSA).

Secondly, it's not the government's responsibility to surveil kids online, it's primarily the parents' responsibility! If you as a parent are unaware of your kid being hateful and a bigot online, you're part of the problem.

Thirdly, if we are to put any responsibility on the government, it is to mandate requirements for adults to become/remain parents. Just like we have a driver's license to protect the public from accidents impacting innocent lives, we should have something that protects society from having unworthy parents raising assholes and potentially also ruining innocents' lives (read suicide).

I'm tired of this, sorry for the rant. We need to step up. I'm painfully aware of what this 15 y/o girl has been exposed to, and I know of so much worse things easily available on the clear web, if not on social media.
Be the safety net your kid needs you to be, dear parents...

Have you ever considered not spending time on social media? Especially the types where randos can send you stuff? Ive tried to limit my kids on this as much as possible. They obviously would prefer I don't but I feel like it's the right thing to do.

the internet is not a daycare for children.

if you don't have the skin to be online, don't be online.

it's like walking into a biker bar and complaining about the loud music, smoke and lack of healthy food.

This community should be renamed to anything goes community.

Moderation team never actually moderate.

This is an opinion peace. Why is it posted here?

Is it just me, or does it feel out of place that the author described herself as "a 15-year-old schoolgirl"? I don't think I've ever even heard that term outside of porn, and you wouldn't describe her counterparts as a "schoolboy".

I went into a bar and there were people drinking alcohol. I went to Lemmy forums and had a nice time. No one told the author that the environment influences the behavior? Has someone convinced the author these platforms aren't predatory in LITERALLY every single way? Culture fail. Corporate win.

I would argue that it isn’t necessarily social media, it’s the internalization of the male defined culture.

This topic is male centric.

The truth is that those boys(and most men) are insecure. I’m a 46 year old man I’ll tell you without a doubt that this stems completely from insecurity.

But so what? Women control the only thing that men want. I promise that women actually have all the power so long as violence and rape isn’t normalized. If women stopped engaging those boys would be on their knees.

All that matters to me, all that matters to the vast majority of men, is sex. Everything we do is a complication of getting sex and controlling women. I have a good job and a nice car and I cook and I work out and blah blah blah to display value to get women.

That’s all we are for, is to add some randomization to the gene pool.