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submitted 1 month ago by Bad@jlai.lu to c/comicstrips@lemmy.world

[a sign reads FEMINIST CONFERENCE next to a closed door, a blue character shrugs and says…]
I don't care

[next to the same door, the sign now says RESTRICTED FEMINIST CONFERENCE WOMEN ONLY, there are now four blue characters desperately banging on the door, one is reduced to tears on the floor, they are shouting]
DISCRIMINATION
SO UNFAIR!!!!
LET US IINN!!
MISANDRY

https://thebad.website/comic/until_it_affects_me

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[-] brucethemoose@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

For real.

This is literally what happens in Lemmy’s women-only sub. Posters are still complaining about it in comments below.

Ugh… I fear for the future of my sex. Sometimes, I want to slap some basic respect into other guys. Nothing fancy or philosophical, just “don’t be a dick, leave other human beings in peace” kind of common sense. Yet it feels like a losing battle.

[-] Bad@jlai.lu 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

From personal experience posting my content on multiple platforms, Lemmy's userbase is by far the most fragile one regarding sexism.

Yes, even worse than Reddit, where this very comic had its comment section locked by the rcomics mods due to the hundreds of pissed off dudes crying in the comments. At least they get downvoted on Reddit. Lemmy really is dudebro land, and needs to fix that if it wants to grow further (which I would like as a Lemmy enjoyer).

I've said this a few times already, and it usually makes Lemmy users uncomfortable, so I'll keep repeating it as often as necessary.

[-] dohpaz42@lemmy.world -3 points 1 month ago

Us Lemmy dudebros obviously cannot fully appreciate your level of rage-baiting.

So I’ll tell ya what: since we are too fragile for your upscale messaging, feel free to take it somewhere else. Your content, and you, are not welcome here at !comicstrips.

[-] Bad@jlai.lu 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Are you being serious?

Is this the official stance of the new mod team or a sarcastic reply?

Legitimately can't tell.

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[-] Catoblepas@piefed.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 month ago

It’s the ultimate consequence of going all in on recruiting people from reddit, which I have been trying to tell people for years. You’re not making the fediverse better, you’re making it more reddity. There’s no point in leaving reddit while bringing the worst of the culture.

[-] dkppunk@piefed.social 3 points 1 month ago

I appreciate you posting this kind of stuff!

Lemmy really is dudebro land

I feel this every time there is a post or comment about how women should have bigger pockets in our jeans and pants.

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[-] xorollo@leminal.space 3 points 1 month ago

it usually makes Lemmy users uncomfortable, so I'll keep repeating it as often as necessary.

Lol good job.

[-] mathemachristian@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

speech-rgigachad-hd

Lemmitors when women make political comics: erm-this-you

[-] brucethemoose@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Please do. Uncomfortable is good.

[-] Malyca@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 month ago

That's where learning happens!

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[-] Blander_Rurton@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Also the 'equal rights equal fights' rhetoric I often see on here and reddit. Like seriously? Are we children?

When have you ever been in a situation where you have to punch a woman? It's such a ridiculous argument. I don't understand why women wanting to be paid as much as a man for the same job is equivalent to getting involved in physical fights. 'hey, you want to be paid fairly? Better be able to hold your own in the ring! No complaining allowed, you wanted this!'

[-] FlihpFlorp@piefed.zip 2 points 1 month ago

Yeah one time I accidentally commented in one of the women’s space community, as I thought it was only a meme aimed at women. The mod both recognized it was an honest mistake, and noted it actually added the conversation so they kept it up but said something along the lines of “thank you this is great but this is also a women’s only space, please don’t do it again” and they were very respectful about it. So I just lurked in that comments section as to respect the rules

Point is I too would probably be upset if my community was overran with “as a man”. What’s that one comic strip with the guy always going oh no, basically in the one I’m thinking of, they carve out their own niche, but then the majority comes in and kicks them out

Like is my heart in the right place, yes I think so, but would it lead to a situation like that, also yes

But I don’t see the point of people throwing a fit. Like go a general community like one of the Asks and throw it there. Like I fundamentally don’t understand people going “waaah I can’t be a part of something I didn’t want to be in”

It reminds me of one of my friends upset he wasn’t invited to one of our line gaming get together, despite the fact they hate the game

WHAT I MISSING I DONT GET IT

[-] Bad@jlai.lu 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

The comic you're thinking of is by webcomicname, and… it's better than my comic at making the same point tbh, I love their work.

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[-] HalfSalesman@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I mean, I accidentally commented on there and apologized when I revealed I was a man and agreed to stop. But I also hate not being able to comment/dissent when I read stuff so I blocked the community.

[-] FenrirIII@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

I blocked it just to make sure I don't comment and break their rules. Very simple solution 😀

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[-] AlfalFaFail@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I'm not surprised by the comments who reject the idea in total. But the I am surprised by the comments that try and fail to think charitably about this. They end up both sides-ing it.

Edit: I figure I ought to do a little better job of explaining what I mean to the curious and good faith commentator.

  1. Women often mask or change the demeanor when men are present. This will restrict what they share and how they share it.
  2. Men often dominate the discourse both in time and style. This is related to number one.
  3. Women who have been traumatized by men will be on guard with men present. They will never be able to tell if you are safe or not in a public discourse situation.
  4. Men and women in the modern American context have different ways of relating to each other. When these conferences happen they sometimes are investigating new theories and new tactics. Male input can undermine free sharing.
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[-] Wren@lemmy.today 2 points 1 month ago

Hey, look at the comment section, it's the people the people from the comic.

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[-] stickly@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

I try not to get bent out of shape about it but formal safe spaces never made sense to me conceptually. Yes, everyone should have a space to feel safe and accepted but we're doing piss poor as a society when your arbitrary membership in a marginalized group is the best shot to find that.

They're a weak imitation of proper tight knit communities and 3rd spaces. They just happen to have some benefit because the membership self selects for similar life views. There's nothing there that people weren't getting at, say, a Victorian tea party, a laundry group or an AME church.

Neither side of the debate in this comment section is wrong but they're talking about two sides of the same coin. Marginalized groups feel modern isolation much more acutely because they had fewer spaces to begin with. Cishet guys feel the isolation as well but can't voice it in these discussions because "they're accepted everywhere" and "power dynamics make it different".

Those statements may be somewhat true but that offers no solution to the problem, not in the way that a safe space offers a simple constructive answer. It's unfortunate because manosphere and fascist spaces capitalize on those vulnerable men with the same messaging and terminology.

These conversations shouldn't be about defending one group's right to create these spaces while delicately limiting that right for another group. They should be about why we fundamentally feel the need for these formal spaces at all...

...

Spoilerit's always material conditions and resource distribution

[-] Taleya@aussie.zone 2 points 1 month ago

Cisfem here. Fucking terfs shat the bed for all of us.

[-] seggturkasz@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

I don't get it.. People should have different reaction to equality and supremacy. My reaction would be exactly this if it would be "conference on white people" and "whites only conference".

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