Tldw?
Using your own guard / relay / exit is the worst thing you can do. The most important with Tor, is to not host relays in EU, USA (including the 5 eyes alliance) & other jurisdictions allowing global surveillance & totalitarism. With a ethically good hosting service and sure this tutorial for a hardened Tor relay.
To clarify, it was meant to host with the geographic country restrictions you mentioned and NOT inside your home. Also to not put content on the server that is associated with your identity and pay in cryptocurrency. I hope that clarifies your objection
Monero
This is the lemmy community of Monero (XMR), a secure, private, untraceable currency that is open-source and freely available to all.
Wallets
Android (Cake Wallet) / (Monero.com)
iOS (Cake Wallet) / (Monero.com)
Instance tags for discoverability:
Monero, XMR, crypto, cryptocurrency