How about don't assume all mean are sweaty horny jerks.

It's hard to set yourself apart when you're dismissed right from the start because of your identity. That's why lonely men kind comfort in the company of other men, cause men are less prejudiced towards men.

I welcome the ban. Equality means equal respect. I die on this hill proudly

Paraphrased from the last thread I saw about this: Women always want these types of men from LotR, but they never want to be like women from LotR: Strong, gentle, soft and loyal.