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Smart Lock without Phone Home
(partizle.com)
Pretty much any Z-Wave lock like from Kiwkset, Schlage, Yale, etc. will do what you need provided you have a Z-Wave interface to HA already. No phone home for those devices.
I have the Wyze lock bolt and its pretty amazing.
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