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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by ToucheGoodSir@lemy.lol to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

Looks like my account was banned/restricted for the above interaction, have already sent the mods on world an email asking if they'd be willing to reverse that. Had an episode of psychosis a few months ago where I did say some offensive stuff, (understandably) got a 3 month ban on .lol for that, so could see my account having been flagged.

I uh, I don’t think it’s reasonable to expect people to check others profiles to ensure we are correctly pronouning them… when making a throw away comment that is less than 10 words involving a ludicrously common saying. Jerboa does not show users pronouns. I could switch to an app that DOES show the pronouns, do any Lemmings have a recommendation for a free Lemmy mobile app that has that feature?

Edit: Edie chimed in, Jerboa does show pronouns. It's a formatting issue with mobile vs browser (She has them on individual text lines so they don't appear on mobile).

Was just going to respond to the user in question to let them know I wasn't purposefully trying to offend that individual, to discover I'm not able to post or make comments on world now, so figured I'd see what y'alls opinion on the matter is.

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[-] apotheotic@beehaw.org 5 points 1 month ago

Its an honest mistake and I think if you appealed the ban you'd have a good case for it, however as you now know that's the trans flag you can be more mindful in future :)

[-] toxicbubble420@beehaw.org 3 points 1 month ago

i would block all those people and move forward with my life

[-] SweetCitrusBuzz@beehaw.org 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

No, it shouldn't necessarily be an expectation to check. However, if you don't then I think it's a reasonable expectation to not gender someone one way or another unless you do know or are corrected, using they/them and other neutral ways of referring to someone like person etc is the best idea if you can't or don't feel up to checking.

[-] flashgnash@lemm.ee 3 points 1 month ago

Generally I wouldn't take that kind of thing too seriously from hexbears they love conflict and actively seek it out

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[-] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 month ago

I just checked the apps I use, and sync shows display names properly.

[-] krimsonbun@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago

when unsure or lazy i use they/them

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