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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Playful-Smile-2713 on 2023-09-16 03:02:24.

My wife and I have recently had a disagreement regarding daycare. My wife would like to have a parent home instead of using daycare. The problem is my wife makes more than me, so it makes no sense for her to quit her job. I do not want to quit my job and be a stay-at-home dad.

My wife feels I am being selfish and not doing what is best for our kid. I do not see much issue with daycare we can afford it.

She then took a jab at me and my pay. I apologized that I did not have the opportunity to go to school like she did.

I have not spoken to her since, but been thinking am I in the wrong?