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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Muted_Dream_8728 on 2023-09-16 18:23:11.

I am (34F) and husband is (35M). We have been married for 3 years.

Anyway, this morning we got into a disagreement. We always have coffee together first thing in the morning before we go to work, and I guess you could say it is a ritual we have both gotten in the habit of. We take turns making the coffee and a light breakfast and have managed to keep this routine up for years. Typically my husband puts s lot more fanfare into it and makes my favourite poached eggs, I'm useless in the kitchen and just make coffee, but still.

We have two types of teaspoons, one my husband prefers for tea and one I typically use. This morning all the typical teaspoons were in the dishwasher which I had forgotten to turn on the night before, so dirty. I turned it on and gave him the other type

He got upset, and although he didn't take it out on me he went upstairs and didn't touch his coffee or food. I asked him why and he said it made him feel unloved and that it was kind of a dick move because I know how much it means to him and its a really simple thing to get right

So AITA?