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My partner feeds them a fine amount but occasionally I will feed them more as they’re still hungry then they nap for 2-4x longer. Is this potential food comma healthy? They exhibit no unhealthy signs and are happily eating until they refuse food, so they recognize their own fullness

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[-] atempuser23@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

That is the correct thing to do. Infant appetite is linked to metabolism. If they are more hungry it is because they need it.

Just make sure not to feed them salty/ sugary foods as it can throw that off some.

[-] ComradeMiao@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 week ago

Thanks for the tip! Never feed them those two things

[-] jet@hackertalks.com 3 points 1 week ago

You would be amazed at what's in most baby formula. They love to add sugar

[-] ComradeMiao@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 week ago

Oh I know! I chose carefully

[-] theinfamousj@parenti.sh 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

ABSOLUTELY. What is the worry? That the kid is scamming you to get more food which they are then going to turn around and sell to their friends on the playground? Kids, especially infants, haven't learned to have a dysfunctional relationship with food and hunger. If they are hungry, they show it. If they aren't, they show satiety. Definitely don't mess with this and you'll get a human with a good food relationship.

You've got cause and effect wrong on the more food = food coma thing. Both are caused by the same thing but hunger can interfere. The same thing is a growth spurt. When a kid is in a growth spurt they eat a ton and sleep a ton. Now, hunger can prevent sleep even in a growth spurt. But that growth spurt is going to spurt and it is a great thing you are doing to support it.

Your parenting instincts ROCK.

[-] ComradeMiao@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 week ago

Thank you :) very kind

[-] Tot@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

How old is this infant and what is this infant being fed?

[-] ComradeMiao@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 week ago

Less than a year. And a bunch of solid foods. Breakfast was pasta, an egg, and spinach.

[-] Tot@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

You're doing great. They'll eat when and what they need! Your kiddo is eating better than me. I had two cookies.

[-] MachineFab812@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 1 week ago

Mine were in their teens the first time they ate enough, often enough, for me to not stress over about their eating habits. The boys are both taller than me, and all my kids get better grades than I did...

[-] cRazi_man@lemm.ee 1 points 1 week ago

Yeah it's fine. Feed till they express that they're full. You're not causing any harm.

[-] JustEnoughDucks@feddit.nl 1 points 1 week ago

And then there is me who can't feel hunger or full and as a kid the doctor told my mother the same thing and after 5 or 6 full jars of baby food, she decided better of it lol.

[-] ComradeMiao@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 week ago

Lmao that’s an insane amount of food

[-] cRazi_man@lemm.ee 1 points 1 week ago

Here's a relevant episode from a parenting podcast I really like, although it may be more relevant to older children than yours:

Your Parenting Mojo - Respectful, research-based parenting ideas to help kids thrive: 142: Division of Responsibility with Ellyn Satter

Episode webpage: https://yourparentingmojo.com/dor

Media file: https://podcasts.captivate.fm/media/486c421e-df9c-4e8d-a21b-46d84ce13702/your-parenting-mojo-division-of-responsibility.mp3

[-] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Yeah. Any excess comes up again. It's normal. The food coma is normal too. My oldest usually slept for 3 hours after eating like a bear for lunch. He's now 13 and survived infancy just fine.

[-] ComradeMiao@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 week ago

Haha! That’s great to hear

[-] Leate_Wonceslace@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

If it's "within reason" it's reasonable by definition.

You're welcome.

Edit: >!Yes, I'm being unhelpful on purpose; it's supposed to be funny.!<

[-] ComradeMiao@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 week ago

thanks captain

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