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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Kindly_Dragonfly_803 on 2023-09-22 18:04:53.

My husband and I had planned on taking our daughter on an outing today, we both got off work and everything. My younger sister texted me asking if she could come over today. She is still in high school but she doesn’t have many friends. She’s also homeschooled. I told her she could come over later because we had plans during the day, and then I get a text from my mom asking why I didn’t invite her. We are all very close and I see my sister multiple times a week and ask her to do things constantly. Half the time she is too tired and doesn’t want to do what I’m asking her to do, and I always ask her what she wants to do but she never really has an opinion.

So long story short my mom is upset that I didn’t invite her and I told her that I just kind of wanted to do this outing with the three of us and that I would hang out with her later and she thinks I’m wrong for that so I’m just wondering if I am being selfish or if my mom is being over bearing? I do feel bad for my sister and I love her obviously but at the same time I don’t think I should be expected to invite her to everything that I do.