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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Wrenatumn on 2023-09-25 02:22:06.

My husbands grandmother has been commenting on my FB posts saying she wants to come visit to see us and our baby. So I reached out to her, we set a date and everything was fine.

She shows up today at my home (not the date we had planned) and said she got the days mixed up. I told her I was busy and today didn’t work for me.

For the record, I have had a busy week and today was my only day off. I wanted to spend time with my baby, not share her. And just wanted to be alone. Which is why I planned a different day for her to come.

Husband was out running errands and his grandmother was waiting on our porch. He said I was rude and should’ve just let her in. He proceeds to let her in, she grabs my baby from me and I tell her to give her back. She ended up leaving after a few minutes.

I did not want visitors today! Husband is pretty annoyed with me bc it’s “not her fault she got the date mixed up”. AITA?

Edit: after reading some questions in the comments, I will add that this grandmother in the post, my FIL and his other grandmother regularly show up to my house unannounced even when I try to set boundaries of not liking unexpected visitors. That is the reason I snapped.