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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Standard_Bit_2921 on 2023-09-25 14:05:26.

Make this clear, we didn’t think it would be in France since he changed wedding ideas so many times. Also we thought it would be 2024 fall, January came out of nowhere

This is about my oldest, he has always wanted to travel the world and he just told us that he will have his wedding in France. We thought he was joking when it first happened because he has said so any destinations at this point.

I also thought it will be in a year at least but the invites came today. It is in a four month in France. He is looking to do a mini trip and apparently was able to book a small church in France for the whole thing.

I told him it is absurd that he thinks we would be able to go. I don’t have the PTO ( already used most of it this year), our youngest are in school, we don’t have the money to have five (wife and three minor kids) people take plane trips to France and I don’t think my wife even has a passport.

We got in a huge argument about it so I want to know if we are being jerks on this