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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Perhaps37 on 2023-09-27 01:01:59.

I F23 was asked by one of my best friends F23 to be a bridesmaid in her wedding along with our other friends. Everything was going fine until her bachelorette party. She asked us for a stripper. It was the one thing she really wanted to have but her fiance M30 told her absolutely no strippers. She decided she wanted one anyways and that she would just keep this a secret for him. A week after her bachelorette party one of the bridesmaids ex boyfriend logged into her messenger and took one of the videos we had sent of that night and sent it to the brides fiance. It was a video of her literally throwing dollar bills on the stripper. The fiance was extremely upset and the bride decided instead of coming clean she was just going to blame the whole thing on us the bridesmaids. She told fiance that she told us not to get her a stripper and that we still did anyways. She also said she only got one dance and then went into her room until he was gone which is also not true. Now fast forward to one week before the wedding the bride texts us to say that her fiance is very upset at us and does not want us to be in the wedding anymore. She then also says that we need to apologize to him. Yes, apologize to her fiance for HER lies. I did it. We all did. We sent the apologies and everything is pretty much fine now but I’m very upset at my friend for asking us to do that in the first place. I was fine to take the fall for her until she wanted us to apologize to him. Am I the asshole for not wanting to be a bridesmaid in her wedding anymore?