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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Agreeable-Guard-9469 on 2023-09-27 14:15:38.

I have a 14yo daughter from a previous relationship and my wife has 2 sons(16,13)

I had a vasectomy after my daughter to make sure I won't have other kids.

I spoil my daughter however I can, this includes brand clothes, expensive schools and best electronics and before anyone decides that my daughter is a brat I should say that she is an extremely well behaved kid.

The problem is my wife and her ex can't afford the same for their sons and they are angry that our kids have completely different living situations while living at the same house. My wife thinks I should be spoiling her sons too but I can't afford it so I told her that's not my problem and they have 2 parents who should be spoiling them