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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Substantial-Gas5463 on 2023-09-30 00:51:53.

My wife and I have been married for going on 10 years. We met in our mid-20s and are now in our mid 30s. When my wife and I met my facial hair admittedly was patchy. But as the years have passed and I have aged my facial hair is now full and supple. I have always wanted to grow a nice long beard like the masculine men I saw growing up. I always admired it. Throughout my relationship with my wife I have normally kept just scruff on my face. But I have also told my wife about my desire to grow out my beard. Her reaction is always to tell me who that's gross or you need to shave you look disgusting. This is now happened enough times that I finally blew up and said babe I I don't give a f*** if you like beards or not! So am I the a****** for telling my wife I don't care about her preference on my beard?