Thanks - I have an icotera i4850 router which claims to support NAT loopback, but I can't figure out where to do it and it seems like the manual is gone from the internet :) Might have to ask my internet provider if they have a PDF somewhere.
Edit: D'oh, it's a checkbox in the port forwarding interface! Thanks a bunch, didn't know what to look for before your reply :)
I feel like life gets better and better and I'm 40, so...
Outside of tragedies beyond your control, like illness and so on, it's also a matter of trying to have a fun and good life every day.