[-] Jfqs6m@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

I had posted this a few days before the reddit API change, it was a lot slower then. I kinda miss it TBH...

[-] Jfqs6m@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Don't feel bad, to each their own. It's not everybody's thing and I get that.

I was too young to really know Howard Stern so never I don't really know him. It comes in waves for me, sometimes if I'm stressed at work I just want to listen to some stupid jackassery on my way home. Then other times I want to learn more or have a more thoughtful podcast.

[-] Jfqs6m@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

Exactly! It's like I didn't realize how much I was itching for the next blue link until it wasn't readily available. It really helped out things in perspective for me.

[-] Jfqs6m@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah, that happens. As more mod tools come out I'm sure that will get better with time.

[-] Jfqs6m@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah, content is lacking. I haven't tried telegram but my fear is that it will be the same issues reddit had for me. Too much content so I just sat there all day sucking from the content teat. The conteat if you will.

[-] Jfqs6m@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah, it feels like having a much smaller community harkens back to earlier internet days. I remember spending hours on the world of warcraft off topic forum back in the day. Always had great conversations and met some awesome interesting people.

[-] Jfqs6m@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

Yeah doomscrolling started to be a real problem for me. I am a new(ish) father, so scrolling through /r/all was starting to give me some serious dread every day. I realized if I just scrolled through my subscribed subs and made sure there was nothing political there, my mental health went waaaaay way up. Like night and day difference, I became a much different (and better) person to be around.

[-] Jfqs6m@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

I think that's the feeling that I don't miss. It was like with reddit I could always get that fix. There was plenty of blue links left to satiate my dopamine drip. With Lemmy, the content is a lot less so I don't feel the need to just scroll and scroll. I hope on, get my kick, hit the end for that day, then go back to doing stuff IRL.

[-] Jfqs6m@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah, I think that will settle with time. It's fresh on everyone's minds right now. As Lemmy continues it will become more of its own thing.

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I had been feeling a bit drawn in to reddit for the past few months before the divorce. I feel like the slower pace at which content comes out on Lemmy is good for me in that way. I can't just scroll and scroll and scroll my entire day away.

Does anyone else feel similar?

[-] Jfqs6m@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 year ago

If avoiding the ant-ageddon is your main goal, pick them and give them away. Free plums sign like others have said? Idk if I'd expect someone to pick them though, I'd pick them and bag them myself.

If it's like what do you DO with a million plums after they're picked, I'm plum out of ideas besides give them away. The jam and wine suggestions sounds interesting. Plum pudding mayhaps?

[-] Jfqs6m@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

I live in rural Pennsylvania, which is a very red area. There are hundreds of people I interact with on a daily basis in my local community that are MAGA supporters, and yet are totally normal individuals who happen to have conversative views, so they joined the cult that matches their ideology.

How are we supposed to heal as a nation if we blanket statement say "MAGAs are idiots"? Are some psychopaths being duped in to trump thumping? Sure. But to lump them all in to this crazies category is dangerous, immature, and is low rung political discussion that plagues Reddit and I think Lemmy should be better than that.

[-] Jfqs6m@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Buying some type of investment property was my first idea too, but this raises a good point. If the original question was that you had one hour for the funds to actually clear before they are taken away then I don't think buying a house would be an option.

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