It sounds like it's not your game, and that's okay. Funnily enough, I couldn't get into Elden Ring. It was my first and only Souls game. On release everyone was praising it like it was the next messiah, and I love most RPGs, so after a few months I finally decided to get it. It's currently sitting in my Steam account with a whopping 2.2 hours of play time. Haven't tried playing it again in over a year. So we're like polar opposites. ::High five!::

An oldie, but a goodie:

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