[-] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 23 points 2 months ago

For original content: If you can't say something nice, don't say anything.

[-] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 42 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Best vaginal penetration 10/10 - face to face angled so there is some stimulation of vulva too, that is the most physically pleasurable way to get off.

Best anal is just not hurting, maybe 5, not bad not great, it's only good if the guy likes it, and isn't too big - I had a partner hung long but not thick, it felt pretty good with him but:

Both? One guy in ass and one in vagina? So good. It does add to the pleasure in that situation, certainly. Like 11/10. But the one in the ass kind of still not the more active.

ETA: I also really like when guys prefer vaginal, like you do. Even if they like both, even if they are bi, if they get off easiest in the pussy and prefer it that is the hottest feeling.

[-] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 16 points 6 months ago

Small boobs != underage, and most places you can't get body piercings until you are of age. God I hate when guys think small boobs are underdeveloped. They aren't, they are small. They work the same as the big ones, same equipment in there, less fat.

Now do some posts play up the pretend underage thing? Yes and yep that's gross. This one isn't, though I do agree low effort post.

[-] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 22 points 7 months ago

I'm a lady, and think that the expectation that men ought not be too emotional is absolutely damaging and unreasonable and am not sure how it still persists.

The second shift - get yourself a single dad, ladies! And a cleaning service for the biweekly bigger cleaning. I don't have that problem. We do each have half a second shift because that stuff doesn't go away, but it's shared, and I didn't need to explain that it exists.

[-] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 16 points 7 months ago

Luckily I have only to ask, to get some. We have a compromise up not down policy so if either of us wants sex we do it.

He says when I move back against him in doggy is what he can't resist, also telling him about guys I've done stuff with (real or imagined) is a slam dunk.

For me it's always been rough stuff, make me. That is the quickest.

[-] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 16 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

First, be gentle with yourself. I think if you are marrying someone, you want them to know about all the aspects of your sexuality even if they feel neutral about some of them.

I think you will just have to straight up tell her one of your pleasures is posting pics online, first ask if she likes to do that herself, ask if she wants to see yours when you do. If you personally don't think you've done anything that crosses a line please don't borrow trouble. As long as you are ok if she enjoys the same, I think you are good. Sooner is better for this.

Oh, and I know you say that the relationship is more important than the kink, but you are a whole package. You can't be someone else, she is getting you. You say that embracing this side of your sexuality has brought you confidence, it must be important. What you are saying (I think) is that you don't need her to be enthusiastic and turned on by it, or directly participate, you can easily enjoy sex with her however she likes or needs, and be satisfied and happy, that makes sense. But you do need her to love you for who you are.

[-] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 15 points 7 months ago

Since there are no answers here - I can't do that (small boobs) but nursed all my kids and it's not a sexual feeling. After the initial rush of nausea and terror I always got (and learned years later had a name and was not just insanity) it felt good in a nonsexual way, the stimulation just wrapped up in caring for the baby.

As part of sex, I'd say grabbing them myself feels good, is sexual stimulation but not the same as someone else doing it, not as good.

[-] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 21 points 7 months ago

Sexy - When a guy is really good at something and not at all cocky about it. That understated competence.

[-] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 18 points 7 months ago

On average maybe once a day? There just aren't as many good looking men wandering around, as there are good looking women. Maybe that is a selective brain thing but I don't think so. My bisexual kids and friends say the same thing.

Isolated body parts, no, not really. But when I see a guy around my age who has taken good care of himself and is hot, yeah.

[-] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 15 points 8 months ago

I want to give perspective as an older experienced lady who has been structurally tight, then had kids, then had to do a lot of exercising and now am strong enough but not structurally tight. Have never (yet at least) had any issues getting slippery.

Worst of all is structurally tight. PIV was ok but kind of uncomfortable always, couldn't go for long (not a problem back then because my ex was a quick guy). It felt like my skin was stretching in an uncomfortable and slightly unpleasant way. There was drag, even when I was slippery.

Last baby was a ten pound bruiser of a newborn and I had to recover my muscle tone. But once I regained the muscle tone, oh yes. That's it. Flexible structurally (not tight skin) but strong muscularly is the best feeling from the woman's side. This is when I found I could get off from PIV, can go for longer and can enjoy bigger hung guys, who would have been a flat NO before.

What's funny is that this is exactly what my midwife recommended back when I had the first baby. She said to train until you can do fisting, that would prevent damage from childbirth and improve sex, and I thought she was crazy but if I could go back to 20 year old me I would tell her to take that advice.

[-] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 15 points 8 months ago

Lady here, and yes face down, ass up is the way I like to fuck! Doggy style is definitely our go-to.

Also like on my back with legs up against my partner, but that is so deep feeling can't start out that way. If I cannot get off in doggy we flip it around like this because more direct contact for vulva so it's very reliable.

[-] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 39 points 10 months ago

What I miss is normal nudes, the subreddit. The place for unposed nudes to show different body types, anybody, no boners and no advertising for your paid site; with a "if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all unless poster asked specifically for critique" comment policy.

Also nakedprogress. I miss the nonsexual nudes sites I guess.

Other than that, I don't think what else I want is possible, all NSFW sites are just guy driven with nearly everything for men's taste. That I don't think can be adjusted if the audience is overwhelmingly male.l, it's not a problem with lemmynsfw, just a state of the world thing.

I think it's going OK overall, growing slowly and organically seems the way to go.

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