[-] Radovic@lemmynsfw.com 10 points 1 week ago

Well it is an entry position...

[-] Radovic@lemmynsfw.com 23 points 2 weeks ago

Inclined to the middle.

[-] Radovic@lemmynsfw.com 11 points 1 month ago
  • Solid conflict resolution skills.

I'm better at starting fires than putting them out.

[-] Radovic@lemmynsfw.com 9 points 2 months ago

More an ethernet kind of guy?

[-] Radovic@lemmynsfw.com 9 points 3 months ago

Kate Ground and her hoof for me as well.

[-] Radovic@lemmynsfw.com 24 points 9 months ago

Yeah, it's just so low effort. You want to see engagement titles done right check out sexmeat's profile. That woman always makes me laugh.

[-] Radovic@lemmynsfw.com 13 points 9 months ago

Nope. It's just been pointed out to me that these posts are form a bot/agency and SweetieAlexa is probably blissfully unaware of Lemmynsfw's existence on the planet.

[-] Radovic@lemmynsfw.com 11 points 10 months ago

Which is where the phrase 'the tyranny of the majority' comes in. Just because you're in the majority doesn't mean you have any kind of moral or aesthetic superiority.

Don't get me wrong you have a right to like what you like and to dislike what you don't like.

What you don't have is the right to tell people that what they like is wrong.

I don't know about anyone else but that attitude is why I left reddit.

What I value about how Lemmy is now is that in general people are a little bit more willing to say, 'I don't like it but that just means I don't engage with it' rather than 'Kill it with fire and downvotes.'

[-] Radovic@lemmynsfw.com 13 points 10 months ago

I think that if you aren't beating reddit on the empathy metric then you're not doing at all well. I was struck forcefully by the opinion of the OC poster on the downvotes debate who said:

When I started posting here our content was heavily downvoted, even in communities appropriate for it. This was very discouraging. It made us feel bad about doing something we should be doing for fun.

And then you've got various other people talking about things like the lack of downvotes devaluing upvotes, which to my mind is just childish nonsense in the same vein as the existence of trans people devaluing masculinity and femininity.

The sheer glaring entitlement of people that are not sharing anything wanting the right to make people feel a bit shit about themselves...

[-] Radovic@lemmynsfw.com 11 points 10 months ago

There does seem to be a problem with a lack of empathy with people wanting to share something that's deeply personal. And I think you're right that federation kind of works against those posters. Not all instances seem to have good manners when it comes to other people's sexuality.

[-] Radovic@lemmynsfw.com 15 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

I disagree with the first of your statements. I think that where it's going is in three directions which are pulling against each other.

Direction one: a feeder platform for Only Fans for people that crave interaction with the models
Direction two: a low effort, low engagement platform where a small number of power posters upload a lot of links and content for people who don't engage with the communities other than voting.
Direction three: People that want to build an active kink community but aren't calculating on the fans of the other two directions flooding out their content. Also, from my observations, these people have relatively little to offer fans of the other directions.

[-] Radovic@lemmynsfw.com 9 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Nice as the pictures are, it's the fact that you go so far and beyond with the titles that I appreciates about you.

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