[-] Signtist@lemm.ee 32 points 2 months ago

It's not an experiment to react to someone's fear and trauma with kindness, even if you learned those skills through helping rehabilitate dogs. She's not doing this to try to figure out how he reacts to the stimulus of M&Ms under certain conditions, she's giving him candy when he's stressed because she knows it helps him calm down. That's just being a caring and attentive girlfriend.

[-] Signtist@lemm.ee 32 points 11 months ago

Can't have a blue wave without a blue vote.

[-] Signtist@lemm.ee 33 points 11 months ago

As someone who works with door hardware, this would be a pretty easy interview.

[-] Signtist@lemm.ee 31 points 1 year ago

Negative change worms it's way in through small defeats. The first DLC's were a small price for a lot of content, the first YouTube ads were only a single ad that was just a few seconds long, the first video game preorders came with amazing rewards, etc. When you allow for 2 seconds, then what's 3 seconds? What's 4, 5, 6? What's 30 seconds? What's 2 minutes? We've seen examples of this all throughout capitalism's history; to ignore them is, well, ignorant.

[-] Signtist@lemm.ee 32 points 1 year ago

Yeah, people who have experienced it understand that you don't "try" gaslighting. People who do it are just constantly doing it, usually without even needing to try - it's just their natural state to counter the things other people say. It works not by making someone believe a lie, but by wearing them down slowly, showing such confidence in something that the victim sees as being so clearly incorrect that they can't help but think that maybe they're the problem.

[-] Signtist@lemm.ee 34 points 1 year ago

It's amazing how many people I meet who think so highly of the American revolution, but are completely aghast at the idea of fighting against the government now.

[-] Signtist@lemm.ee 33 points 1 year ago

It took me a few glances to realize that's not chewed gum stuck in the keyboard.

[-] Signtist@lemm.ee 32 points 1 year ago

She's my buttery snacc.

[-] Signtist@lemm.ee 35 points 1 year ago

Don't worry, I was also confused as to why she was wearing a towel in a high-tech laser science lab.

[-] Signtist@lemm.ee 33 points 2 years ago

Yeah, but that difference is specifically rooted in sexism and misogyny. The very fact that we can all see the difference that isn't much of a difference shows that there's a divide that needs to be bridged. We only think women's nipples are inappropriate because we were taught to. Plenty of cultures around the world don't see breasts as inappropriate, and they're doing just fine.

[-] Signtist@lemm.ee 31 points 2 years ago

Yesterday I drove 4 hours and went from northern Minnesota to slightly-less-northern Minnesota.

[-] Signtist@lemm.ee 31 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I'm not writing up anything. I clock in when my shift starts, I complete the work designated for me for that shift, send it out by the time it needs to be sent out, and clock out at the end of my shift.

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