Anon makes sacrifices for the family by appauled in c/greentext@sh.itjust.works
[-] appauled@sh.itjust.works 11 points 2 days ago

God forbid I said sibling instead of offspring. Lord.

Idk why you're incredibly bitter, I get your kiddo manipulated other people into taking care of them, but that doesn't mean everyone else is your child and there's no exceptions.

Can we at least be on the same page and acknowledge not everyone who uses a label is the same exact person in the same exact situation?

Bully keeping weirdos in check by appauled in c/whitepeopletwitter@sh.itjust.works
[-] appauled@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 days ago

Disagree, social or physical bullying is about the same effect, except the risk of physically hurting someone is exchanged with the social risk of pushing people towards depression, self-harm, and suicide.

Anon makes sacrifices for the family by appauled in c/greentext@sh.itjust.works
[-] appauled@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 days ago

Sounds like someone who's choosing to be lazy instead of someone who is unable to work. Not the same thing, ignorant to say everyone who uses that label is the same as your sibling

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submitted 3 weeks ago by appauled@sh.itjust.works to c/selfhosted@lemmy.world
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this is my current plan, but I've yet to selfhost for longer than a month or two previously. what do y'all think of my choices?

Proxmox HV running TrueNAS+Debian Stable Server

Prowlarr: Indexer manager Sonarr: TV show management automation Radarr: Movie management automation LazyLibrarian: Book management automation Lidarr: Music management automation Homarr: Dashboard for managing applications Seerr: Media request management system Jellyfin: Media server qBittorrent: Torrent client NZBGet: Usenet downloader WireGuard: VPN software Surfshark: VPN service Portainer: Docker container management UI Watchtower: Automated Docker container updates Immich: Photo gallery & backup Mealie: Meal planner Moonlight: Low latency remote gaming (retro game emulator focused) Kavita: Ereader for books, manga, audiobooks, most formats Funkwhale: Music streaming

open to suggestions, but wanted to see if the community would perceive this as a reasonably interlocked software system or if i need to be using other software.

incredibly new and lowkey uninformed by trying my best to learn. plz be nice lol

appauled

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