I dont think there is a requirement for them to be "bad" but theres a lot of them who are and the ideolog kinda supports being a douche.

Star Wars The Old Republic, i mean, its a tough choice, since i really like the story and setting. And for a game of that age, the ongoing support and community are amazing. But umm, it's just a mediocre Mmorpg at best, when it comes to Gameplay.