I know. I'm privacy conscious and have software dev and IT training. I'm a lot better than most zoomers in that regard. I'm just hoping that my niche actually exists in the real world and isn't purely a rhetorical construct invented to get underage queers to join discord servers and talk about identity issues. I would hope glowies have better things to do than infiltrate the gay community. I would also hope that the liminal space of looking like a girl but not identifying as one is a common shared experience. My litmus test is age, so the more 40something and 50something femboys and sissies I see, the more secure I am in the label's legitimacy. Do girly boys hold a special place in your heart?

I'm now on Recon and Scruff. No hits so far, but I do have a few positive things to say about the latter: you can sideload the app, the UI is slick (but at times confusing; still haven't used the "woof" feature afaik), the boys on there are slightly more attractive than the Recon users, there are more of them, and there are trans people. One thing I noticed is that at least half of the guys here really like their facial hair. I know there's supposedly a gene that triggers that attraction, but I can't personally relate.

😋 Are you a full-time sissy? I'm always a bottom, which is why I like to see dicks UwU

UwU very cute! You've almost sold me on chastity cages

It was one of my first sexual experiences. I was a lucky boy. I was living in Portland at the time, and I know how hard it can be to find queer relationships in more rural areas. You could ask your SO to find a bi/pan guy to fuck you. I've found that girls are able to navigate those things easier.

I was spitroasted once or twice. My poly gf (who was as open and casual as most others in this fluid dynamic we had) invited her other bf over to fuck me in the ass while I ate her out. Great experience, though I should have dilated. After that I started looking for harder partners to wreck my ass, but I didn't get into BDSM as much until I exhausted the mainstream vanilla routes. 8 years later, I'm taking steps to prepare for getting properly sodomized, cause it's been a while.

Went to a casual BDSM meetup at a bar on Friday. The bus system limited my time there to an hour. Saw a familiar face (23M) who swapped fetlife info with me but did not reciprocate flirting, probably too straight for me (30M). Cuddle partner is recovering, so maybe I'll see her tomorrow.

I'm pretty sure I don't look girly compared to the fine specimens at femboys@lemmynsfw.com. It's the effort that counts. In my opinion a crossdresser doesn't have to pass for the target gender, but I recommend shaving all of your body hair and wearing a bit of makeup. They also recommend squats and lunges to work on the ass.

I've got 3 erotic shorts I've been meaning to publish, but not one of them is quite there yet. I'm considering ArchiveOfOurOwn, Amazon, and Smashwords. If I were writing slash fiction or tweet-length stuff I'd probably just drop it in a forum somewhere. I still haven't found a roleplay/smut site where people are communicative and friendly to my kinks.

Bi guy and wannabe femboy here. I've only received anal 3 times in my life. Prone bone was the last position, and that's my go-to if I find another partner with a dick.

A slightly older female friend came over to my place to cuddle. I'd never had an encounter like that which didn't involve physical sexual contact, so this was a new experience. Such a precious experience that I'm almost afraid to share it. We will be continuing, hopefully weekly, and I hope it lasts for a long time.

Interesting. Do you plan to ship the LLM with the game or dial up a remote server? Presumably you know how to make the model talk dirty?