I think I could top you <3

University of Oklahoma has an organization and there are probably more at other colleges in the state. I can attest to the difficulties of online dating. There may also be LGBTQ resources in your town or nearby, like a social gathering at a community center or something.

I'm into girly boys or boyish girls who are absolute sadists, or switches. My sexuality is BDSM-informed. That means I talk about rape and torture a lot. To me it's all fun and games because I've never had the opportunity to get raped, never had a relationship last longer than 2 years, never talked to a doctor about HRT despite me desperately trying to avoid the label of "man". I'm looking for someone to enable my depraved femininity.

It's all in my various profiles. I'm a male or non-binary pansexual leather bottom. I focus on what I like more than what I dislike, and there's a lot more of the former than the latter. There is enough negativity in my life outside of sexuality that I don't need to ruin sexy times with intrusive thoughts.

I just never learned smart pointers and write C++ code like it's C for aesthetic reasons.

Looks like you're going out for something kinky UwU

Nope!

Thanks. In my experience, Wine and Proton don't work as well as native for one of the apps I'm building, so I will need to either build in a container or say "use X Ubuntu version".

Thanks for the info! If I'm doing container builds anyways, this looks tasty.

I don't use dependencies that don't have a history of backwards compatibility, and when I do, I ship them. It's SOP to assume basic things like a GUI "just work", and it's also SOP for Ubuntu to ship non-functional programs that were broken by GTK and Qt updates. I'd rather have buggy/broken software with undefined behavior than software that just doesn't run.

I'll probably have to use chroot or docker. I tried with glibc force link but when I objdump -T I see symbols that slip through with newer glibc, even when they're .symver'd in the header. That project hasn't been updated in a long time.

Friends with benefits and romance. Ideally, I'd like openly queer and kinky partners who are openly queer and kinky everywhere and don't try to hide it, and for those relationships to last, and if they don't I need valid reasons why not. Maybe even marriage one day.

In terms of Recon being intense, I very much need that BDSM dynamic. I don't have to call him "master" when we're at a coffee shop because that might be weird for the other guests, but I've been a part of the kink scene for a while and see no reason to hide it. 19 can be too young depending on their level of experience. I dated a 19-year-old transgirl a few years ago who was more mature than I am now. Of course, the hillbilly community college crowd has a mental age of about 10. It's hell here.

I don't mean to complain. I very much want a hardcore sadist partner or two who participate in the community, and if 10% of the population fits the description then everyone I know is playing coy.