Both grandpas are dead but all 4 are amazing and I wish I saw my grandma's more. I never learned a ton about their past first hand besides my dad's dad who told me about Korea. I mostly talk about what's going on not the past. Sometimes it feels like seeing a teacher or coach outside of school when we talk about the past because you saw them as grandparents and not normal people.

I don't think so. You need to get a large amount of training before you can make a comparable salary, and if you do get a high paying cyber security job there's still a good chance of it being stressful. You can see if you like it using the free tier of try hack me, and if you love it and can afford to take the paycut it might make sense but you are probably better off finding a way to use your existing skills than aquiring new ones

My open source observability project could use some help https://gitlab.com/shiftsystems/shiftmon

I self host seafile. Nextcloud and syncthing are also good options. There are people that sell hosted nextcloud and seafile

I use headscale and headscaleui but I've heard things about net bird and netmaker

I have been using cheogram but I'm not sure where their servers are hosted https://cheogram.com/

Seafile or nextcloud are my choices. I like seafile because it has an official and documented way to install it but nextcloud works well too just installing it can be tricky. One thing I like about sea file is they have a remote filesystem app that supports Linux and works better than nextcloud and webdav

What's under the skirt?

It's funny watching AI draw pangolins

https://youtu.be/Jyn6g6JFkIY?si=ap_HekJjLm3jqj5J

There are Alot of terraform users that either use a third party tool that the BSL would make legally impossible or benefit from features like locally encrypted state won't get merged by hashicorp

I try to avoid to it but no job will be perfect. You could life style creep and that nice salary turns into handcuffs and you might have issues going back to making less at a more ethical company