tbh i don't get why 4 people downvoted your comment here, my above comment was inconsiderate and victim-blamey

thanks for pointing that out

the logo looks like one of these butthole logos ai companies have

there has to be a better solution other than expecting others not to access public information

• (auto-)delete posts after a specified amount of time
  • drawback: non-casual creeps can circumvent this by archiving posts
• separate online identities with multiple accounts for different purposes
  • drawback: online identities can be traced from each other if you're not careful
• or what i already suggested: only post stuff online that you're comfortable with everyone seeing
  • drawback: you have to hold back on what you post online

i personally use a mix of 2 and 3

imo if you don't want it to be public, don't post it publicly on social media