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It happens more often than expected... ๐
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I don't escalate, but I tell my partner that her behavior is not acceptable, and she does the same to me.
Being pissed isn't a free pass to be a dick to your partner. If they are pissed and they come to you, then they don't get to be pissy with you.
If they can't do that, they can go take a five and come back after. It's the same thing we teach children.
In the case I fucked up, I apologize and make amends. Again, it isn't a free pass for my partner to berate me.
And my partner expects the same from me.
I think we're misunderstanding each other. You're using combattive and defensive language and then assuming that I'm allowing someone to berate me. That's different than what happens. There needs to be open communication about how your partner makes you feel and what language they use. But coming at this from a punitive or paternal angle is just ick.