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[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago

Also so often they aren't nice, they just think they are.

But for real. Wash frequently, groom yourself, get out of the house, and start making platonic friends. From there learn to flirt. Oh also, acknowledge the reality of how attractive you are and while it's totally cool to shoot above your range, accept that you're probably going to get someone similarly desirable to you. Oh and get your mental and emotional health under a certain level of control, emotional labor is part of a relationship but so often I see lonely people seeking codependency.

I was once a weirdo loser who couldn't get a partner, and anyone who can't do the above needs to take a good long look at why and resolve those issues. If you can't be happy single a relationship won't make you happier, they're more of happiness multipliers.

[-] PugJesus@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

get out of the house,

But the sun is out there. I think I'll stay where the giant nuclear fusion reactor can't see me

[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Join us vampires by only going out at night

[-] MothmanDelorian@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Be interesting and affable don't be boring and mean.

this post was submitted on 20 Jan 2025
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