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Designed by men, for men: Why sex with robots does not have appeal among women
(english.elpais.com)
This is a most excellent place for technology news and articles.
I think you hit the nail on the head about the power-dynamic and pretense. Regardless, I hope you at least keep talking about it to people who would try not to judge. I think sitting and dwelling on that kind of trauma, or even ignoring it can cause all sorts of problems.