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What’s something you did once and immediately thought, ‘Yeah, never again’?
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Yeah.
I'm just not into having a massage from someone I'm not romantically entangled with. Some people are, hard no from me.
That said, my wife is Thai. Massage skills seem to be something like Swimming is to Australians or cooking to Italians. You learn some at school but it's such a big part of your cultural identity that everyone just knows how to do it.
She very frequently tells me that massages aren't supposed to feel good nor are they supposed to be relaxing. Apparently a good massage hurts and you take as much pain as you can bear in order to "fix your muscles".
We've been together for 13 years now and I'm still not sure how much I believe her.