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How do you feel when someone apologises too much?
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For me when somebody apologizes a lot it feels as though there is a subtle belief that I am the type of person who would be annoyed by the things being apologized for. As though their apology implies that I am an impatient or otherwise short fused person.
Itβs important to me that I am patient and forgiving so excessive apologies subtly make me feel like I may be projecting some impatience. Ironically the very activity of constant apologies does lead me to be slightly impatient, quite the conundrum.
I do experience a bit of the paradox of impatience:
"Sorry"
"Don't be sorry"
"Are you angry?"
"I'm not angry"
"Did I do something wrong?"
"NO YOU DIDN'T DO ANYTHING WRONG FFS!!* π
Yeah, I know the struggle π