Now many of the men are chosing to remove themselves without dying.

They're not. They're still fucking here, leaning over your shoulder at the bar and saying in a stage whisper "I just said you'd look prettier if you smiled more! You probably just couldn't hear me because your back was turned!"

But I’d rather be a painfully shy man, than an asshole.

A fundamental problem with the dating scene is finding the sweet shy himbo in the crowd of hooting screeching apes.