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Literally explained how the two things I said make sense together and he banned me for "not manning up to lying"

...Ironically in doing so, he did not man up about his falsehood, which is that I said contradictory things.

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I have not committed any apologia, I just explained what communists believe, I at no point endorsed tankiesm

[-] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

That's why I edited the comment.

The way you argued it could be taken as apologia. I have no way of knowing your intent, only what you wrote. All I (we) have access to is the thread.

It sucks, but sometimes, no matter how hard you try, shit may not read the same to everyone. People may use inaccurate words, or inaccurate usages, they may just be stupid, or have an axe to grind.

There was a point where that came up, a disagreement over what you meant vs what the mod in question thought you meant. I can't view both this and the original thread to copy/paste a direct quote, so the basic exchange was about whether or not there was a semantic disagreement. So both of you were aware that there was a fundamental barrier in communication.

One of the mistakes made by goat was that they never, that I saw, told you "I am a mod, what you are saying is breaking a community rule". They made their arguments as a user. Hence it being a power trip no matter what else went on.

I agree you weren't endorsing authoritarianism. At most your were pointing to it as a flaw in the specific nations discussed. But, unfortunately, there were other sections that could go either way. Again, I reference my edit that it could be interpreted that way.

This is where it gets sticky for this community, c/ptb. There's a point where discussing the original subject goes off topic here. So there's a limit to how much I'll go into it. That being said, I agreed with the point I think you were making. I just can't ignore for this purpose that the early part of the exchange was open to interpretation, and as both of you got more (for lack of a better term) annoyed with each other that goat crossed the line of acceptable mod behavior, and you got a bit more adamant in defending your position.

Again, this is me crossing past what's on topic for this community, but the way they have the rule written regarding apologia is not good. It could be worse, but it's phrased in a way that's a little too vague. That's why the later parts veer closer and closer to their definition. Their definition is like an ant lion hole. If you're already debating a point around authoritarian nations, as soon as there's a disagreement, one person or another is going to have to defend their stance. Any defense could be deemed apologia after a point in that process, even when it may not be anything other than a passing point in an overall discussion.

It's a badly constructed rule, imo. But, within that, you did cross the big, blurry line it represents. Were you wrong? No. But that's not the point here.

If goat had straight up said, "yo, I'm a mod, you're breaking a rule, stop it", it would be on you entirely after that point, no matter how bad that rule is. But they didn't. And then they kept arguing the points with you, over a decent number of comments where they could have acted as a mod and given you the warning as a mod.

Does that phrase it better? I don't want you or anyone to get the impression that I think the mod action taken wasn't over the line; it was. I'm trying to explain why that is, which includes that some mod intervention would have been appropriate, just not what was done.

Which, one last step into off topic, in the hopes that it might help any further discussion of this particular subject. Sometimes, when a conversation isn't going well, insisting on defining something the way "you" (as in any individual making an argument) see it can be counterproductive, even when that definition is the most accurate one. Sometimes, shrugging off someone else's inaccurate usage of a term or idea isn the only way to progress in a discussion that isn't being mediated by a neutral party. Being right is only useful if being right is the goal you start with (and it's fine to do so!). If the goal is to talk about a subject, being right is less useful than being on the same page.

[-] communist@lemmy.frozeninferno.xyz 11 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

He explicitly stated that being a communist is not against the rules, and I at no point endorsed or recommended even one authoritarian thing, even going so far as to clarify that I am not a marxist communist and disavowing tankiesm in clear words.

i do not think there is any argument to be made that there was any apologia at all. If I was to explain the beliefs of nazis that would not be apologia.

furthermore he didn't ban me for apologia, he banned me for "lying"

[-] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago

Well, I see that the way I rephrased doesn't match with how I intended it to read.

I'm not sure how to say it in a way that both points out that during the discussion goat was saying that you were using apologia, even though goat didn't use that word directly that I recall; and still explains why goat was still out of line.

My goal was to point out the details of the situation that were probably the basis of the mod decision. This was to establish a framework where the mod decision could be evaluated as objectively as possible. That's why I edited in the extra section.

I'm not sure what else you want from me. There is an upper limit to how many attempts I'll make to rephrase things to match your preferred wording on the matter. Tbh, this is that limit.

I explained why I felt the mod action was PTB. Part of that was the possibility that they took your words as apologia. Some of those comments are written in a way that could be interpreted as such, if a mod is using very vague standards.

If that doesn't make my intent clear, I'm sorry, but you'll have to just accept that we don't have the same goal, and that I already agreed that the mod action was out of line, PTB.

[-] communist@lemmy.frozeninferno.xyz 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I don't think there's any chance apologia was the basis of the decision, he explicitly stated it was because of the lie he pointed out meaning I was arguing in bad faith, when I pointed out that he misinterpreted it and explained what I meant he banned me again for replying to his false allegations.

I don't think there's room for interpretation, he just didn't like losing an argument and wanted to silence me. He did check me for apologia sentiment and I did as he wanted, when he couldn't ban me for apologia he decided my arguments were in bad faith and gave me a terrible reason, I think in creating this framework to make an "objective" statement you have given him far far too much credit.

the only thing I want is the acknowledgement that I did not in fact technically break the rules. I don't think there's even a way to interpret what I said as apologia honestly. Even if there was, that would at best account for one of the two bans.

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