If you play a multiplayer game, and lose, who is the author of your defeat? (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 3 days ago by rainrain@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Is it the other players, because they beat you?

Is it you, because you chose to play the game?

Is it the game manufacturer?

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[-] Nemo@slrpnk.net 11 points 3 days ago

You cannot change the game, you cannot change others. The only one you can change is yourself, and thus the only time blame can be profitable is when pointed inward. Just remember: sometimes the mistake is in playing the game at all.

[-] rainrain@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 days ago

It's an empowering philosophy.

this post was submitted on 20 May 2025

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