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[-] Nefara@lemmy.world 11 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Delicious in Dungeon, Frieren, Hands off my Eizouken, and Bocchi the Rock probably

Edited to add Spy x Family, and I suppose Full Metal Alchemist: Brotherhood depending on if one feels Winry is sexualized.

[-] abysmalpoptart@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

I feel like campfire cooking would fall into this as well

[-] I2jgwh0hYtxrCZQ@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 2 weeks ago

Medalist

By the grace of gods

Non non biyori

Laid back camp

The ancient magus bride

New game

Himouto Umaru chan

In the land of Leadale

I’ve been killing slimes for 300 years

Kuma kuma kuma bear

Log horizon

Ranking of kings

Shadows house

Spy x family

Spice and Wolf

Ascendance of a bookworm

Girls und panzer

[-] SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 weeks ago

Girls Under Panzer put all the fan service into a separate series of short (under 5 mins) OVAs, so it's avoidable but does exist ...

[-] Sat@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 2 weeks ago

Don't worry, the number of people saying Frieren is a child is astounding

[-] egrets@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

Although she appears to be very young, she was born into a long-lived race of elves and has lived for over a thousand years.

Oh, that old chestnut.

[-] missingno@fedia.io 13 points 2 weeks ago

It's not the 1000-year-old-who-looks-8 trope, it's the 1000-year-old-who-looks-25 trope. She's never portrayed as anything close to childlike.

[-] Kazumara@discuss.tchncs.de 12 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Not really, she really is just an old elf lady who looks like a young adult human. There's nothing sexualised about her, and she's not childlike. For example here she is next to a human child who becomes her apprentice:

And here she is talking to a human priest she was adventuring with 50 years ago, he's grown old, she hasn't changed:

And here she is head patting him, to give him reassurance that he did well after he confides that he never felt like he figured out how to be "a grown up" and just kept faking it while growing old:

The human child is Fern, and the old Priest Heiter picked her up after she was orphaned by a demon attack. Heiter asks Frieren to keep taking care of Fern after his death, and mentor her in magic.

It's a really nice relationship driven story with an interesting storyline and magic system.

[-] acockworkorange@mander.xyz 3 points 2 weeks ago

That's a nice change of pace.

[-] Cethin@lemmy.zip 5 points 2 weeks ago

As everyone else has said, she's not a child-but-actually-ancient. The show is not about sex. It's about mortality. I started watching it, and I want to continue, but it's really depressing. I wasn't in the right mood to keep going.

As far as I'm aware, there are absolutely no sexual undertones in the show. It's sometimes funny, but it's also pretty serious.

[-] Nefara@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

That trope bothers me too, but basically any anime female is going to look the same anywhere from 12 to 40 due to the way the features are stylized. So, looking for context clues is how you find the age of a character if it's not explicitly said. Frieren is absolutely treated like, dresses like, and acts like an adult. She's smaller than a human man, larger than a dwarf or human child, and while she's infantalized a little by Fern it's very much in the "how are you this old and still not taking responsibility for x" way.

[-] Stern@lemmy.world 0 points 2 weeks ago

Maybe Saihate No Paladin, Nichijou, and Azumanga Daioh as well.

[-] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 weeks ago

I love Azumanga, but Nichijou might be one of my favorites of all time. It’s got Azumanga vibes but cranks everything up to 100.

[-] abbadon420@lemm.ee 0 points 2 weeks ago

My daughter (11) wants to watch more anime than what's on Netflix. Are these good for girls that age, you'd guess?

[-] missingno@fedia.io 0 points 2 weeks ago

Frieren is very violent. Amazing show, but definitely not for kids.

Bocchi has exactly one fanservice gag I can recall, but it's a fairly tame one. Probably fine, the whole rest of the show has nothing else inappropriate I can think of. It is sub-only though, so I guess it really depends on whether she's fine with reading subtitles?

Delicious in Dungeon, some violence but nothing gory, compared to Frieren I don't think it's too much.

I haven't seen the other one that was mentioned so I can't speak for it.

Honestly I'd say it depends on your daughter and what you think she can handle. I'm not a parent, so it's hard for me to judge. Maybe screen a few episodes for yourself and decide what you think is appropriate?

Edit: Though just to add one more nomination for you, Little Witch Academia immediately comes to mind as a show I think would be absolutely perfect for that age.

[-] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 2 weeks ago

My dad let me rent an anime when I was 11 or 12. He was like “eh get whatever, it’s cartoons.”

I chose Ninja Scroll.

I turned out fine hahaha

[-] riquisimo@lemmy.world 0 points 2 weeks ago

For those unititiated, this anime movie includes a woman who is literally toxic to sleep with. Her body poisons any of her partner and they die shortly after.

This is confirmed with a scene where someone sleeps with her against her will. It is very not appropriate for a 12 year old.

[-] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 weeks ago

It was absolutely not appropriate. Add to that the HORRIFICALLY gratuitous dismemberment, decapitation, and other gruesome acts of torture… the fucking honestly was the LEAST of the issue.

My little brain was like “whoaaaa… anime is bad ass!”

Then I moved on to stuff like Azumanga, Excel Saga, and Cat Soup. Yknow, the hardcore stuff.

[-] ColeSloth@discuss.tchncs.de 0 points 2 weeks ago

How you gonna leave out Full Metal Alchemist?

[-] Nefara@lemmy.world -3 points 2 weeks ago

It's a great show but Winry does wear unnecessarily revealing clothes. I guess a big deal isn't made out of it. The one that's a major omission is Spy X Family actually

[-] ColeSloth@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 2 weeks ago

She's not sexualized but she wears a crop top thing. "Oh, the audacity"

[-] Nefara@lemmy.world -5 points 2 weeks ago

She was specifically drawn that way, it's not like it was an accident. I acknowledge in her case it's subjective though because I can't remember any gratuitous angles and they don't really focus on it.

[-] MotoAsh@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

You ... DO realize that kind of judgement is merely a slightly more benign version of the same misogyny as the, "look what she was wearing! She was asking for it" type of thinking, right..? You realize at least some women choose to look pretty without wanting to be oggled or abused, right?

[-] Nefara@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

Women with large breasts and slim frames just exist as human beings in reality, but when it's drawn in anime it's a choice. Having the "camera" focus on upskirt shots or side boob is a choice. Animating boob bounce is a choice. So a 15 year old depicted in micro skirts and a bandeau, that has a bath scene and a scene where she takes her top off is a choice. This is in the context of a thread talking about anime sexualizing minors. If Winry was a living, breathing girl, she could make those choices herself, in the privacy of her own life, but this is an anime character where she was specifically drawn that way in an industry that is overwhelmingly male dominated. FMA:B IS a very good show, and Winry is a real character with actual traits and a personality, but pretending that all of these design and story decisions weren't made on purpose by people who almost certainly were adult men is naive.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=aAOegc0ezGk&pp=ygUQd2lucnkgYmF0aCBzY2VuZdIHCQmNCQGHKiGM7w%3D%3D

[-] gamermanh@lemmy.dbzer0.com -1 points 2 weeks ago

As much as I fuckin love Frieren they totally sexualize Fern when she's under 18, though tbh it does feel less gross than usual considering how clothed she is & the weird relationship she has with her master

Frieren is suuuuuper jealous of Fern once she starts developing (with the show repeatedly using camera angles to show it) and Fern's 18th birthday is in the later half of the first season. It was funny and rather realistic having been around girls that behaved like that, but as an adult man it was obvious the camera had a serious liking of staring at Fern's chest whenever it could

[-] Kazumara@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 2 weeks ago

I don't remember Fern being sexualized or the camera lingering weirdly... Only that they give Frieren the typical chest envy, and have Fern fill out quite well in contrast, but that's played as a joke I'd say.

But it could also be that I'm desensitized, having seen so much actual straight up fan service by now.

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