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Am I racist? (lemm.ee)
submitted 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) by Droechai@lemm.ee to c/yepowertrippinbastards@lemmy.dbzer0.com

Got quite confused by this ban

Edit: context https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/pictrs/image/98196510-49ce-40ee-8db5-a8914f7ad0b1.webp

And the comment I responded to:

I don't know how to see who banned me, but I guess the mod thought that my response to the"normal woman" having a body type that is far more idealized than normal was racist since I said the body type probably was a minority among body types? English as second language so I might be in the wrong

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[-] Droechai@lemm.ee 4 points 1 day ago

Yeah, I understand that its easy to interpret my comment in that way now. I'll try to be more clear in the future and try to use a language that is less "loaded" (haven't got a better word for it). I didn't know that the word used in that manner was so improper.

As my comment is interpreted I am in the wrong here :)

[-] ratboy@hexbear.net 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Yeah, it can be hard to figure out just what to say when it comes to topics like this. It's great that you're trying to be sensitive and do better, though! I think when talking about women's bodies especially its best to stay away from saying things like "masculine" or "skinny" or "fat", even if youre not attaching negative meaning to it.

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