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When you meet a person like this, it's tempting and easy to insult them, but that is not the way forward. They will only double down...
They need non judgemental discussions, to make them start exercise their brain for real.
9 times out of 10 there is no rehabilitation for these people. Focus your time and energy on more fruitful endeavors.
Better to keep typing "magtard" at people, I guess...
In person sure. It's essential for persuasion. But here let me just enjoy watching assholes get own goals.
Yes, that's exactly why I wrote "when you meet".
Whether intentional or not they voted to inflict this pain on others, to destroy the lives of hardworking innocent immigrants and to usher in a police state. They need to come to terms with that and sincerely abandon the platform before any forgiveness or healing can happen
Yes, and I'm sure that you are able to do that without insults and sounding judgemental.
Frankly I dont see a reason to handle them with kid gloves. They are responsible for a lot of suffering and the only chance they have at receiving basic respect from me personally is through acknowledging that.
Otherwise I do judge them for supporting fascism absolutely. I boycott their business. I refuse to associate with them in my personal life at all.
As my hometown is torn apart by ice today I loudly hope that the maga supporters feel the pain of their policies firsthand and I will not make excuses or apologies for that.
I dont know why you're obsessed with the feelings of fascists and not with the harm they cause.
Maybe you should practice what you preach
Other than the reason I wrote? This advise is not only for facists; but everybody trying to avoid cognitive dissonance.
I mean they're talking to you nicely and you won't change your mind. So why does it fucking matter how nicely they engage these hateful imbeciles? It's a waste of time.
Because I haven't heard logic, they have never tricked me into a corner where I would have to admit to myself "I supported evil", "I was tricked" or "am I a hypocrite". But if you are good enough at arguing, you could change my mind.
They will double down regardless of how I disagree with them. Nobody can force them to see the error of their ways through conversation. Sadly jt must be a reckoning. Im all for being there to pick up the pieces once they have the realization, but I believe words are not enough to bring that about in most cases.
So you won't converse with them, and it seems like you don't want to be involved with the reckoning, but is ready for when the difficult part is over. Did I understand that correctly?
You did not.
So what are you willing to do?
I dont detail my irl activism online but I will refer you to my other post in this thread
For people like this? About the only way I care if they exercise their brain is if it's plastered on the wall behind them. I, and a lot of others, are far past the point of "kumbaya, let's all be friends and forgive". They've taken more than they can ever repair and I wish for nothing but the worst for them for as long as they are alive. If they decide to be informed or not is immaterial. Their feefees mean jack and shit.
What keeps you from doing that yourself?
Back at ya.
I share your view. I hold back my desire for schadenfreude by realising that the greatest punishment would be if they grew to understand the harms of their actions and views. Empathy can hurt like a bitch
Fuck them let them double down. Fucker’s will eat shit so we would have to smell it. Let it fucking burn.
That's fine. Have you joined in on the burning?
Lol. What next? Showing empathy for ICE agents who go above and beyond to torture foreigners?
Yes, not insulting people certainly can be a slippery slope...
And not sounding judgemental while making them come to terms with their stupidity, can be hard.
Lol. Who talked about insulting anyone? You're the only one insulting them by calling them stupid. I talked about empathy.
And it doesn't sound like any of these people "come to term with their stupidity". If they did and recognized their mistakes, I would show empathy and maybe even sympathy.
...Yes... A comment about insulting and coming of as judgemental, that you replied to.
They are not stupid. They are hiding their nazis thoughts but it shows when they vote. We should prevent them from voting though.
When I was 19 with a lower standard I had a racist girlfriend, whom was a former neo nazi (with multiple swastika tattoos). She had abandoned the nazi stuff before I met her, but she was still racist.
I changed her mind though. She was stupid for believing the evil was justified when it's against "the bad people"; she got smarter.