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submitted 23 hours ago by Tweekerz@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

i remember my friends and i would say "he repented her" instead of sexual assault/rape because it was "lighter", and because some places like school may have banned the word.

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[-] BassTurd@lemmy.world 16 points 20 hours ago

Absolutely not. I use the proper word for the situation. If someone raped someone, I'm going to use the word rape, not sugar coat to soften the blow and lessen the severity of the action. If the audience I'm talking to doesn't know what the word rape means, then we probably aren't having the conversation to begin with.

[-] Tweekerz@sh.itjust.works 2 points 19 hours ago

that’s fair. we did it as young teens because we couldn’t say “rape” but i get that it’s disrespectful

[-] deathbird@mander.xyz 3 points 10 hours ago

You could always say 'rape', even as a teen. Why do you think you couldn't?

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