NSFW: I am a trans girl who is drunk and high at the same time, AMA! (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Give me your worst, Lemmy! Absolutely nothing is off limits. Let’s get fucking weird!

I post this here because /c/iama doesn’t seem to be a thing…

Don’t hold back you jerks!

EDIT: It’s just about 05:00 for me. Night night! I’ll answer any other questions. In a few hours!

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[-] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 28 points 1 year ago

That’s a great question!

Transitioning left me with a tiny “dating” pool. Most of my “dates” were with chasers on Grindr or Taimi.

Except for the 2 sexual assaults, I’ve been fine with serving my purpose. After the 2nd rape, though, I gave up on casual encounters and dating in general. I haven’t had an actual relationship with anyone in about 7 years.

I will likely never meet someone who likes me for me. It took me YEARS to accept this difficult truth. It contributes to my depressive episodes all of the time.

I’d rate myself as a 6/10 on a good day. It’s just really hard to find guys that are interested in me beyond the fetish that they see. It’s easier to give up.

[-] Ziggurat@sh.itjust.works 15 points 1 year ago

Holy shit, 2 rapes...

So sorry that you had to go through this. And I wish you all the best for the future

[-] darq@kbin.social 6 points 1 year ago

Can I ask, does this include T4T too for you?

[-] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 year ago

I don’t really identify with a sexual or romantic preference. 99% of the time these days, I like dude

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